Retreat 2 – Female/Male Orgasm 6-day

Date 30 May 2026 until 4 Jun 2026

Start on first day at 10:00

Finish on last day at 17:00

Location
Meeuwenveen
Meeuwenveenweg 1-3
7971 PK Havelte

Country Netherlands

The retreat offers understanding of the dynamics of sex and man-woman relationships by exploring the depth of orgasms as our capacity to give, receive, and access bliss.

In this intimate journey, emphasis is placed on healing the genitals and emotional aspects from misconceptions, trauma, beliefs, social, and religious conditioning. You are introduced to methods that restore the natural pleasure abilities of your genitals and body. You learn to let go into deep pleasure, activate the orgasmic points in the genitals, slow down rather than rush into excitement, and develop awareness of sensations. This results in channelling a high level of orgasmic flow into the body and heart for deeper, more fulfilling sexual experiences, but most importantly, for using them as a gateway to love and consciousness.

During this retreat, women and men are separated for several days before regrouping for specific practices. This enables them to explore the unique issues, topics, and qualities of their respective genders. We create a supportive, loving, and sacred environment where everyone feels safe to open up to the delicate journey.

Main Explorations:

• • Learning about male and female orgasms
  • Regaining your capacity for orgasm if you lost it or if you can’t find it
  • Expanding the orgasm you already experience to reach deeper fulfilment
  • Healing your genitals from past trauma, misuse, and misunderstanding
  • Letting go of destructive associations and addiction to sex
  • Restoring the capacity toacred touch
  • Elevating the relationship between man and woman to love and consciousness
  • Learning the Pillars of Sacred Intimacy

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com
Price: €1640
Price is per person, including VAT and lodging.

Orgasm by Pema:

“When orgasm is triggered in the body, it opens a space beyond the body, a space beyond duality and nonduality, which could be called oneness. The energy of orgasm first surges through the body, fueling our nerves, muscles, and senses with pleasure. This triggers the brain to release the neurotransmitter DMT, often referred to as the molecule of bliss. This powerful chemistry sparks a coming ‘back home’ moment in which everything aligns within us, making us feel one and blissful. This occurs in a split second, a brief moment we often miss due to lack of awareness, not knowing how to circulate our energy, and over-attachment to bodily sensations. This moment is very precious. It can reveal where we originate, what we are made of and who we truly are. Learning how to access this space provoked by orgasm forms the foundation of all Tantra practices. You can learn it through sex, as well as from taking a shower, walking in the forest… any human activity can lead you into this oneness state. From sexuality, it is very physical, and it involves most of the time the genitals, but we also have the senses, feelings, emotions, and the mind as a door to this oneness. We tend to describe orgasm as the release of energy in the genitals, but in Tantra teaching, orgasm is layered with many types of experiences, most of which do not involve the genitals. Tantra teaches us not only about genital orgasms but all the different orgasmic ways to experience oneness. We start with the physical orgasm because, for most of us, it is the most natural and direct way to access oneness. Once we learn to navigate it, we open ourselves to many more ways to enter oneness.

The Damage: “Even though we yearn for orgasm, we are simultaneously afraid of it. We carry a dilemma shaped by education and social or religious conditioning: ‘Sex is dirty, bad, wrong, evil… It is God’s gift, but only to make children… If you enjoy sex, you are a whore…’ You might initially think you aren’t influenced by these beliefs, but they play in the background and constantly limit your bliss. The connection between Sex and the Divine has been taboo for thousands of years. This has become a disease in humanity. We need healing, love, and understanding to restore the natural ability to rejoice with the divine through sex.”

Men and Women relating: “While exploring this healing dimension, another aspect naturally comes into view: our identity as men and women, which is shaped by social rules and conditioning. Being a man is not about being strong, powerful, competitive, or dominant, and being a woman is not about being fragile, emotional, needy, or manipulative. Identifying with these stereotypes creates very immature men and women, who then relate to each other through wanting, needing, domination, submission… Tantra offers a completely different approach to relating, which is rooted in sharing and support. It generates a new quality of men and women who love, respect deeply, and support each other’s awakening. At WildTantra, we aim to nurture such men and women!“