“Get more crazy!

Get more mad!

Let love absorb

you so totally that

you are nowhere to be found!”


“Get more crazy, get more mad! Let love absorb you so totally that you are nowhere to be found!”


WildTantra Path of Awakening

2 years process for singles & lovers


WildTantra Path of Awakening is a journey from pleasure to bliss, from ignorance to understanding, from illusion to awakening! In this vibrant alive process Tantra is exploring an ultimate path of awakening where everything in you is used, transformed to fuel your body, your heart and your being with the highest quality of life force, of love and of consciousness.

The Steps of WildTantra Path of Awakening:
– Juicing up the body with its full potential of orgasmic energy
– Lighting up the heart with the fire of devotion
– Seducing the mind to crack its shell of ignorance to expand into unlimited consciousness
– Waking up lovingly the fearful sleepy-self to dissolve into the unknown

WildTantra Path of Awakening  is equally open for singles and lovers. It is set up as 2-year process in which each retreat builds upon the previous one. For the second year retreats, participation to some of the first year retreats is advised, as it will ease your process. For upgrading your life to a high level of love and consciousness, we invite you to jump into the whole process as it deepens your transformation with every step.

Program Overview & Prices 2023

WildTantra Path of Awakening for singles & lovers

is equally open for singles and lovers. It is set up as a 2-year process in which each retreat builds upon the previous one. For the second year retreats, participation in the first year retreats is required, as it will ease your process. For upgrading your life to a high level of love and consciousness, we invite you to jump into the whole process as it deepens your transformation with every step.

Program Overview in the Netherlands & Prices 2023*

First Year at Venwoude
Orgasmic Body 6 – 9 April: € 900
Female/Male Orgasms 7 – 11 June: € 1090
Kundalini Awakening 7 – 10 September: € 900
Arya Ritual 30 Nov – 3 Dec: € 900
Reduction price full first year process: € 3490

*Prices are per person, including VAT and do not include the lodging. For lodging prices, look here.
There is an additional 10% discount for participants under the age of 30.


Second Year at Meeuwenveen
Silent Orgasm  30 March – 2 April: € 900
Inner Diamond 15 – 18 June: € 900
Noor Ritual 15 – 19 September:   1090
Reduction price full second year process: € 2680

*Prices are per person, including VAT and include the lodging.
There is an additional 10% discount for participants under the age of 30.


WildTantra Introduction at Venwoude
WildTantra Intro 27 Nov:  135 €

Registration & Information

For WildTantra Path of Awakening
Amrapali +31 (0)6 28 07 16 96

For Introduction day
Amrapali +31 (0)6 28 07 16 96

FAQ about WildTantra Path of Awakening

Can I register only for one retreat of the Path of Awakening or do I have to do the entire process?
WildTantra Path of Awakening is equally open for singles and lovers. It is set up as 2-year process in which each retreat builds upon the previous one. We give priority to people who book the entire first year of the Path of Awakening process. If you want to attend only one retreat you will be put on waiting list and we let you know in due time if there is a place available.

Do I have to register for the two year process or simply the one year?
You need to first register to the first year process before registering to the second year. At the end of the first year process, we look who can participate to the second year.

Can I register only the second year process?
Yes, under some conditions. For example when you have intensive experience in meditations or retreats (preferably tantric).

What do you mean with Lovers?
With Lovers we mean a man and a woman who love each other. It doesn’t mean you are living together or that you are married. It simply means that you are committed to grow in love together. You are very much welcome to follow the whole training with your lover, wife, husband, meditation partner. We just ask you to also be open to sometimes meditate with somebody else. We will support you to uplift your relationship, marriage to a new dimension of relating and expansion into love and consciousness…

What do you mean Meditation Partner?
A Meditation Partner is someone with whom you are involved in a process of meditation, which might or might not involve lovemaking. It is a partner with whom you are not specifically living together or are engaged with in a relationship. You might meet only at specific moments for meditation.

What are the Advanced retreats?
The intensity of the process shared in these retreats requires that you have experience with tantric meditation and that preferably you have followed the first year of The WildTantra Path of Awakening. In these retreats, you need to easily contain and circulate your energy and be able to watch your mind and emotions without it creating tension in you.

I am homosexual, can I participate in your retreats?
Yes, you are warmly welcome under the condition that you are willing to practice some meditations with somebody with the opposite gender.

I am pregnant, can I participate in your retreats?
The retreats we offer demands a lot on a body and emotional level. We feel that for a pregnant woman this type of “shaking up”.. is not the best. The system of a pregnant woman is very precious and a 9 month tantric retreat in itself! We can recommend you some meditations and offer you some guidance about it, but we prefer to not welcome you in our retreats. You’re much welcome to join us a few months after giving birth.

I am taking medication, have some health issues or some psychological issues.
Can I participate in your retreats?

Your physical and psychological conditions should be good and healthy in order to follow our training. If you take medication, we need to know what it is and for what. Depending the type of medication, we might refuse you in our retreat because we have observed that our intensive energy work is not compatible with some medications. Before being fully accepted in our retreat, we ask you to fill out a registration form with questions about your physical and psychological health. If we judge your condition will not match the work we offer in our retreats we will not take you in. We can give you some suggestions of what you can do as a preparation to our retreats or redirect you to some different type of work more suitable to your condition.

Are some preparations needed prior attending the retreats?
During the retreats from The Path of Awakening you are put on a vegan diet without sugar and coffee. This might be creating a detox process in your body during the retreat. To avoid it becoming too intense for your body, we recommend you to prepare it a few days before the start of the retreat by already some leaving out some heavy food from your diet.

How do you deal which personal information?
We collect some personal information about you when you register for a year program, retreat or event. In our privacy statement you can read what we do with this information.

WildTantra Introduction (1 day)

This day is meant for people who wish to join the WildTantra year process “Path of Awakening” or are simply interested to get to know us before deciding to join. It offers you the opportunity to experience some of our methods and feel if this Path is for you. It is as much for you to get to know us than for us to get to know you as we want to be able to inform you that you are “fit” to enroll for our intensive retreats.

Here are some topics we explore:

– Understanding the WildTantra approach.
– Experience some of our methods.
– Get to know us and us to know you.
– Get the approval from Pema to join the year training

Upcoming introduction days

WildTantra Introduction 1-day
27 November 2023, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

WildTantra Introduction 1-day
18 November 2024, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Information: introday@wildtantra.com

For registration: Registration for the 2023 Introduction Day will open Augustus 2023

Retreat 1 – Orgasmic Body (4 days)

This retreat guides you into rediscovering your potential of living life fully from the body, bypassing the protection mechanism of the mind that builds up bodily tension and a lack of love, as well as a sense of separation. The process restores your direct connection with life by awakening and exploring the life forces and the sexual flow in the body. It disarms the pelvis and sex from tensions and breaks breathing patterns with the aim to return to a natural breathing that bridges the body sensations with the heart. This process returns the spontaneity, vitality, and sensuality to the life energy and it restores the body’s ability for pleasure and sacred touch.

During the retreat we give you the space, situations and methods to trust your body-heart connection  with deep pleasure and sensuality without the restrictive belief that love is pure and the body not. We offer you a ‘bed’ where love and the body can unit freely, blissfully, in order for you to come back into your pure state of sensual innocence.

The main areas of exploration:
– Unfolding your natural orgasmic body state
– Letting go of fear restricting deep pleasure
– Reviving the Sacred within
– Opening to orgasmic breathing
– Understanding mind-heart-body function
– Opening up your life to nourishing bodily relationships with yourself and others

What Pema shares about this retreat:
“We tend to live interpreting life from the mind. In this way we bypass the direct experience of life in the body. We don’t know anymore what an apple tastes like or what a kiss tastes like, because the experience is first lived in the mind. There our experiences are tainted with judgment: Good or bad, like and dislike, but never with wonder, unity. The ego is very much nourished; strengthen by this mind game while the body and the heart slowly die from desolation, abandon. It has a tremendous impact on how we relate with our body and the bodies of others. It creates a sense of separation that crystalizes into tension, numbness, and excitement too while it covers the heart with emotions such as anger, frustration, depression… In the long run, diseases of all kind appear without us understanding why.

The separation we suffer from leads us to make choices and decisions about our life, our relationships, and our work, which are totally out of touch with life, existence, love and consciousness. To come back to unity, to the marriage with existence within us, the body has to be explored as a temple by using the senses, the breath and sex as a doorway to the divine within and without. It allows the body to become a vehicle for the heart and no longer the slave of the mind. By linking ourselves to the heart and body, we can manifest love and creativity, transforming negativity, destructive behaviour that impede a re-union with life.
In the process we awaken the desire force, pleasure, and orgasm from the deep understanding that these are instruments of unity and not of separation. When these bodily instruments of oneness are awoken lovingly, consciously, they create a sacred inner ‘music’ -a harmony and bliss within us that allows us to embody a deep reverence for life. Making love, eating, dancing, resting, working… no matter which activity we perform, it then becomes a prayer uniting us with the depths of life…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 1 - Orgasmic Body 4-day
07 March 2024 - 10 March 2024, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com 

Retreat 2 – Female-Male Orgasms (5 days)

The process unfolds and offers understanding on the dynamic of sex, of man and woman relations by exploring the depth of orgasms as a source of energy which do not belong to female or male, but more to our capacity of giving/receiving and our quality of taping into bliss. To come to this point, we take time to heal our genitals, our emotional body from all kinds of misguiding, trauma, believes, social and religious conditionings. We give you tools to regain the full function of your sex in order to use it for a deeper fulfilling sexual encounter, but most of all to use it as an instrument for encountering the divine within you. In this way, we gain trust in letting go into deep pleasure and surrendering into something bigger than ourselves. We develop a supportive, loving and sacred environment where everyone can feel safe to open up to the intimate play of orgasm in the body.

Within this retreat women and men are separated for 3 days before coming back together for specific practices. It allows them to explore different issues, topics, qualities belonging to the uniqueness of their gender.

The main areas of exploration for this retreat:
– Stepping out of immature female and male attitudes
– Connecting to nurturing feminine and male forces
– Learning about male and female sexual energy and body
– Regaining your full capacity for orgasm if you lost it or if you can’t find it.
– Expanding the orgasm you already have to deeper fulfilments.
– Healing your genital from past trauma, misused, misunderstanding.
– Letting go of destructive associations with sex.
– Lifting up the ego centred relation between man and woman to a relation at the service of love and consciousness.
– Destroying within you the social conditions of what it is to be a man and a woman.

What Pema shares about this retreat:
Even though we yearn for orgasm, we are afraid of it at the same time. We carry a dilemma brought about by education, and social or religious conditioning: ‘Sex is dirty, bad, wrong, evil… It is God´s gift, but only to make children… If you enjoy sex you are a whore…’ You might think at first that you aren’t affected by these kind of beliefs, but they are playing in the background and constantly limiting your bliss. Sex and the Divine have been taboo for millennia. This has become a disease in humanity. We need healing, love and understanding to restore the natural possibility of rejoicing with the divine through sex. While diving into this healing dimension another aspect is naturally brought into the light: our identity as man and woman which is based on social rules and conditioning. Being a man is not about being strong, powerful, competitive, dominant, and being a woman is not about being fragile, emotional, needy, manipulative. The identification to these clichés are creating very immature men and women, whom thus relate with each other on the level of wanting, needing, domination, submission… Tantra proposes a totally different approach of relating, which is based on sharing and support. It generates a new quality of men and women who love, respect deeply and support the awakening of each other. In this retreat, we like to give birth to such men and woman!…

What is orgasm?
While orgasm is triggered in the body it opens a space beyond the body, linked to the heart and consciousness. The energy of orgasm first rushes in the body, flooding our senses with pleasure. Then it opens a door to the beyond. This happens in a split second, a small moment that we miss most of the time, because of a lack of awareness. This moment is very precious. It shows us where we come from. It is a moment ‘back home’ in which everything is aligned within us: sex, heart and consciousness. If we catch hold of it, it is the greatest orgasm existence can offer us…

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 2 - Female/Male Orgasm 6-day
04 June 2024 - 09 June 2024, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Retreat 3 – Kundalini Awakening (4 days)

The retreat is devoted to root you into bliss by activating, harmonizing the kundalini energy within you. It refines your sensitivity from pleasure sensations to blissful state by expanding the sexual flow through your whole body and by letting go into energetic orgasm. The consequences of the bliss, kundalini opening in you are not only sexually rewarding, they are life changing as they centre you into a space of non-duality where your encounters with others and life can become a source to the experience of oneness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Awakening Kundalini flow
– Circulating and containing sexual energy
– Opening to energetic orgasms
– Supporting positive qualities
– Surrendering to the Goddess force
– Shifting to the non-dual dimension
– Connecting sexual energy in various channels in your body
– Transmuting pleasure into bliss
– Letting go of addiction to sex and whatever pulls out of bliss
– Understanding and dropping addiction

What is Kundalini?
Tantra has discovered a pathway in the body, which is mainly connected to the spine and which is called Kunda. When the life force flows through it, it is named Kundalini. This precious path way unites us between earth and sky, matter and spirit, body and no-body. When the Kundalini stays at the level of the sexual organs and sexual activity, it carries a certain vibration. The more it is elevated in the Kunda channel, the more our inner vibration changes. The happy vibration of sex becomes a vibration of joy in the heart. When it moves up to the crown, the vibration is of bliss. Then sex feels like a divine experience. Sex, love, consciousness are integrated in the same action. This is a very powerful process that transforms our way of life totally. Once you taste the joy of love embracing the body, life takes a different direction…
However, Kundalini flow does not only create new sexual experiences. It embraces much more than that. It activates our capacity for unity with everything in life. Kundalini supports us in being in this embrace all the time, not just during sexual intercourse. It shifts the experience of unity to everything around – the trees, flowers, the moon, the sky full of stars…
At the same time it creates a lot of changes on the body level. The vibration of our cells, brain, organs, and blood flow is activated to a new level of light. It nourishes and rejuvenates our entire organism since it awakens the capacity of our body to live life fully!

What are the expressions and qualities of Kundalini?
Kundalini carries the quality of unity. In expression it can be very silent, motionless, as much as very expressive. It will all depend on what the Kundalini encounters on its way through you! If there is fear, you can be sure that fear will be actively expressed. If there is happiness, it will come shining through equally. It is important to understand that Kundalini is exposing everything hidden inside us, fear as much as joy. Since Kundalini is a non-dual energy that always looks for uniting. If there is something in the way of unity, it will be exposed so that it can be dropped or transformed. This is the powerful beauty of Kundalini: It is a healing, transformative force, which awakens us to unity. It calls us back to our state of oneness.

What Pema says about this retreat?
“There is a simple fact that we live at the minimum of our capacity of bliss. We live in pleasure, which is already beautiful, but not blissful. With our thirst for pleasure we create addiction to what awakens the pleasure. Addiction to food, to drink, to emotion, to sex… We are somehow totally sick, but we call this our normal state. This state is also very much promoted in our society, which considers it as normal, social, familial, civilized, while actually it maintains us in a dimension of tension, fear, need, violence, domination, manipulation and most of all addiction. We have become slaves of pleasurable tensions. We run after ice cream, French fries, good wine, good joints, good sex… but then what? Are you satisfied? Does it elevate you into silence, into harmony, into unity?… No. The answer is no, if you are honest of course.
So what goes wrong in that story, because in fact there is nothing wrong with pleasure. It is definitely important to move in it… But how do we move in it? This is the art, the key Tantra can offer us and this is what we explore within this retreat!”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 3 - Kundalini Awakening 4-day
12 September 2024 - 15 September 2024, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com


Retreat 4 – Arya Ritual (4 days)

In this retreat you are invited to refine lovemaking to the Arya Tantra, which unites the force of desire to the devotional alchemy of the heart by worshipping the sexual energy as doorway to the inner secrets of creation. The process creates a drastic change of your sexual life by shifting you from ego-centered sexuality into conscious, blissful, nourishing sexuality where intimate meeting becomes a source of awakening and of creativity.

The main areas of exploration:
– Refining intercourse to the Arya Tantra
– Opening to the Arya Yoga of Creation
– Entering the Great Desire
– Building up Clear Intention in lovemaking
– Awakening the qualities of devotion/worship
– Stabilizing yourself into bliss
– Being in touch with the Divine creation within you
– Trust in your capacity to embrace and create a life supporting you

Important Information: Do you have to move into penetration during the retreat?
This retreat is devoted to lovemaking, which doesn’t mean you will have to move into penetration. This is very important for you to understand this. You stay totally free with this! We share with you an amazing method of lovemaking. While learning the method you are free to move in penetration or not. You will not be pushed into it! Whatever is your choice we can guarantee the total benefit of the method.

What Pema says about this retreat?
“There are a few aspects in the way of lovemaking from the Arya Tantra.
The first one consists in realizing that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are creating patterns of energy within us and our partner. During the Ritual you use these patterns of energy with a clear intention of love in order to uplift your lovemaking into a high frequency of bliss.
The second aspect is about the biological aspect of the energy we generate during intercourse. This energy if not used for the creation of a child, can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the patterns of energy mentioned above with the biological force of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process shifting love intercourse into a totally new dimension where every union with a partner actualizes the potential of Divine forces of creation within the body, the heart and the sexual energy.
One more aspect is about Desire which is one of the powerful energy fuelling the Arya Yoga of Creation. There is a deep understanding about desire, which is whatever we desire we want to be one with. It means desire is also a key for oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire totally, as to come to a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation bringing about blissful experiences beyond words.”

Arya Wisdom of the Yoga of Creation:
“My dear lovers, I did mention to you that many things can be created out of the Yoga of Creation- recipe. Actually everything is created out of it. Created and also de-created or better to say transformed. What is happening within your body when you move into the Yoga of Creation is the same happening in this big universe around us. The play of creation in the universe is the same as in your body. You do not need to go looking at the stars to figure out how they have been born. Go looking down into your body and you will know because they are unfolding there too. In your body, you can see the whole creation of existence. Stars, plants, animals… all are born in your body and you are also born in all of them. The play of creation is the same for everyone and everything, even though forms coming out of it differ. If you are stuck looking at the forms, you might think that creation is different for every thing and for everyone, but it is not. It all comes out of the same Yoga, of the same dance, of the same force of desire. The Great Desire is the chef cook in this big kitchen of the universe! In the Yoga of Creation you need to rely on the Great Desire. It is the force moving your body towards each other. It is the force fuelling your energy and giving the spark for its actions. Now, consciously or unconsciously you can participate in it. And it is consciously you need to move into it in order for its hidden mystery to be revealed to you. Unconsciously you will only see the by-product of creation, such as the fruits on the trees, the blossoming flowers on the plants, the baby from the womb of the woman, but you will not be taken by its Beauty, its Truth…” Extract from the book Tantra, The Hidden Mysteries from Pema Gitama

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 4 - Arya Ritual 4-day
30 November 2023 - 03 December 2023, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Retreat 4 - Arya Ritual 4-day
28 November 2024 - 01 December 2024, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Retreat 5 – Silent Orgasm (4 days – Advanced)

This intimate retreat awakens the Inner Circle of your energy by transmuting sexual intercourse into inner intercourse. The process redirects the sexual fire into an alive vibrant inner dimension where you can enter the Silent Orgasm; a space beyond time, form, gender, personality and ego. On a body level, it opens you to timeless orgasm rooted in consciousness more than in sex and yet creating deep orgasmic sensations. It invites you to a great tantric paradox of being fully present and yet totally absent and into surrendering sex to love and consciousness while still enjoying the pure wildness of sex.

This process is a dive into the center of emptiness, the zero point where nothing moves, where forms have not taken shape, where thoughts are not yet born: The Silent Orgasm. It invites you to redirect the life energy of your every actions into strengthening the watcher in you and to vitalize your ability to pull yourself into the realm of consciousness where you live awaken instead of a sleep-walker victim of his own unconscious patterns. The impact of such redirection of your energy uplifts you on a body level to timeless orgasm rooted into bliss which you can expand into all actions of your life.

The main areas of exploration:
– Awakening the Inner Circle
– Surrender sex to love and consciousness
– Letting go of the sense of separation
– Transmuting sexual energy to sensual awakening
– Stepping out of mind and ego
– Expanding to silent communion
– Resting into Silent Orgasm
– Shifting the magnetic dynamic of our energy field
– Taping into consciousness

Pema’s sharing about this retreat: “The main aspect of this retreat is to open the possibility for tantricas to realize they are one within themselves by directing their awareness to inner intercourse, to the inner circle of their energy. To open this possibility there are different aspects developed during the retreat, such as letting the sexual energy fuel intensely the subtle moon and sun channels. In this process the tantricas uplift each other consciously into a realm of expansion and dissolution where they can meet as one within and without. The meeting is transformed into an endless embrace into oneness, which does transmute physical pleasure into an energetic and spiritual experience that can be life changing…”


Upcoming retreats

Retreat 5 - Silent Orgasm 4-day
24 February 2024 - 27 February 2024, Meeuwenveen, Havelte

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Retreat 6 – Inner Diamond (4 days – Advanced)

During this retreat we activate the pineal gland known as the third eye. Through specific methods derived from various Tantra tradition , the gland opens its mystic qualities – supporting us to see beyond the dualistic and rational nature of the mind. The One Eye View gives us the capacity to perceive inner and outer reality from a high consciousness. As we mostly perceive life from a low point of view conditioned by social ideas and concepts, the third eye view is like an eagle flying high in the sky of consciousness. It looks at reality from a high point of view, allowing us to see other areas of reality which are normally not available to our senses. The whole process uplifts you to understanding who you are, what life is about, what are your qualities of creation and to center yourself into consciousness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Activating the Third Eye
– Detoxifying the Pineal Gland
– Exploring the brain waves activities (From Beta to Delta)
– Tuning to higher frequencies of consciousness and creativity
– Entering the realm of clarity, intuition
– Reclaiming your freedom
– Inner Diamond Ceremony

What Pema shares about this retreat:
“The pineal gland is an endocrine gland responsible of the production of melatonin, serotonin and neurone transmitters which influences sexual development and sleep-wake cycles. It is also known for being the producer of DMT which triggers alternated state of consciousness. While the physiological function of the pineal gland has been unknown until recent times, mystical traditions and esoteric schools have long known this area in the middle of the brain to be the connecting link between the physical and spiritual worlds. Known as the Third Eye, the Seat of the Soul, this mysterious treasure is considered to be the gateway that leads within to inner realms and spaces of higher consciousness. It plays an important role into our psychological being but most of all it has a crucial role to unlock our perception of reality, to connect directly to consciousness, truth. It is interesting to notice that we live in a society that does everything to shut down the capacity of the pineal gland by putting Fluor in our drinking water, too much sweeteners in our food. By locking down the third eye to higher consciousness we can have a society of slaves functioning at a minimum level of consciousness in kind of sleep walking state where everyone can be controlled. It makes us live far below our capacity of awakening, of love, of clarity, of intelligence. The awakening of the third eye is not just a nice mystical experience, it is most of all a way to reclaim our full capacity to live our life as an awakened being instead of a conditioned robot. In short the third eye activation is about reclaiming our freedom!”


Upcoming retreats

Retreat 6 - Inner Diamond 4-day
15 June 2024 - 18 June 2024, Meeuwenveen, Havelte

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Retreat 7 – Noor Ritual (5 days – Advanced)

This retreat guides you into the Initiation Space of the Noor Ritual during which the power of sacred sounds, words, symbols, and plants supports you to resolve the inner illusion of death, of everything that separates you from encountering life directly. It puts you face to face with your lies as much as with your truth. It awakens the one in you who sees through everything that blinds you and who can take clear decisions on how to manifest your life purpose.

The main areas of exploration:
– Dissolving inner illusions
– Activating third eye potential
– Activating healing forces
– Noor Ritual
– Power of sacred sounds, words and plants
– Protecting your own energy field from negative input

What Pema says about this retreat?
“In our inner growth process we all face at some point limitations, resistances making us feel totally stuck and no matter what you do to pass through it, it seems like nothing works. There is a subtle mechanism in us, which hides our most essential inner blockages.  Tantra is very concerned by this inner situation and it has created many methods taping in our resource of healing, of intuitive clarity for us to see, to understand and to remove our blockages which most of the time are impure resolved past situations. The methods use sacred sounds, words, plants in order to reconnect us with “the One that sees” and that heals too. Might it be a force within us or outside of us, the methods named often by misunderstanding magical or even black magic do bring about in us purity and deep transformation. It clears us up from illusions and detaches us from restrictive karmic links. It is very enriching to learn those mysterious methods because they open a dimension in us that makes us free from our ego, which is to me the only source of duality we carry and do not want to face clearly. We most of the time project it outside of us on people or situations. Moving in the esoteric tantric world, you learn to see very sharply what you do with your energy, how tricky you can be and how deeply you believe in ego patterns that only suck your life down to misery. The esoteric world in Tantra is not about creating all kind of superficial magic, it is about creating the real magic: waking up to reality by purifying the One that sees the full picture of existence. It is about the removal of all the dust of illusions in front of your eyes, of your heart in order to meet existence in its full splendor… I recommend every person on the path to unleash the inner esoteric power in them if they really want to heal, to clean, to see, to really SEE!…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 7 - Noor Ritual 5-day
31 August 2024 - 04 September 2024, Meeuwenveen, Havelte

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com


WildTantra Meditation Retreat for singles & lovers

What is Reality?
We can answer this question in various intellectual, scientific, religious or philosophical ways, yet we will never be satisfied. All the answers will motivate new questions. Tantra found a very profound way to answer this existential question by offering methods of meditation that support us to have a direct recognition of the true nature of reality.

AHAM Retreats are an opportunity to practice such methods!

AHAM are Meditation retreats based on traditional Tantra methods. The retreats are offered once a year. They last from 7 to 10 days and are set in nature places propitious for silence and introspection.

AHAM Retreats are open to everyone who has the longing to dive deep into traditional Tantra practice, and who has the longing for freedom, for liberation, for love, for consciousness. It is for beginners as much as long time practitioners.

AHAM Meditation Retreat - Vigyan Bhairav Tantra (7 days)

What is Reality? We can answer this question in various intellectual, scientific, religious or philosophical ways, yet we will never be satisfied. All the answers will motivate new questions. Tantra found a very profound way to answer this existential question by offering methods of meditation that support us to have a direct recognition of the true nature of reality. The Vigyan Bhairav Tantra (VBT), one of the oldest Shivaism Tantra scriptures, containing 112 methods that explore the body, breath, senses, pleasure, heart, emotions, dream, sounds… has a vehicle for a direct encounter with the essence of reality.

Aham Retreat is a unique transformative process where you practice some of the most profound methods of the VBT. Through the methods you can awaken your perception of Reality and ignite your capacity to weave all opposite energies and forces within you. It is a unique opportunity to unfold your ability to enter the space of Hridaya, the Supreme Heart where everything is Consciousness.

The whole journey is cutting through illusions, projections, judgements, interpretation and manipulation of Reality. It is a deep purification process activating the clear, true Seeing; what the physical eyes cannot see. The process also offers deep understanding of the mechanism of the mind, of emotions and the body structure. Most of the methods are body oriented and do not deny sensorial pleasure nor sexuality, but it uses them as tools to provoke higher states of consciousness. In this journey you learn to celebrate the fine nectar of life within you and to rest in your inner sanctuary of silence, of calmness, of joy and how to manifest it in your daily activities and relationships.

The main areas of exploration:
– Hridaya (the Supreme Heart)
– Breath Awareness
– Shunya (void)
– Light and Darkness
– Kundalini Yoga
– Devotional ritual
– Mantra and Sound
– Visualisation
– Senses

For whom is this retreat?
This retreat is open to everyone who has the longing to dive deep into traditional Tantra practice, and the longing for freedom, for love, for consciousness. It is for beginners as much as long time practitioners. Whatever the level you are at, you will  benefit from the process because meditation practices can only deepen the more you practice them. You can always approach meditation practices from every point; beginning, middle or end. Wherever you are, you grow within the practice!

Structure of the retreat:
The retreat is structured with whole day and night practices. Starting at 6 am and finishing around midnight. This intensive rhythm is alternated with breaks for meals, swimming and walking in nature.

Upcoming retreats

AHAM Meditation Retreat VBT 8-day
05 February 2024 - 12 February 2024, Ramayana – Candidasa Hotel & SPA, Kabupaten Karangasem

Registration & Information: martina@wildtantra.com

“This whole existence
doesn’t make sense
as long as you don’t
surrender to love.”





“This whole existence
doesn’t make sense
as long as you don’t
surrender to love.”



WildTantra Retreat for Women


MATKA  retreat stands for healing and activating the orgasmic potential of woman’s body, energy and for reconnecting women to their wisdom and power of creation.

MATKA retreat aims to serve women in moving out of their conditioned female stereotype and to revive the inner core of female qualities. It offers a field of understanding, of experiences, of methods activating the creative force based on love and reviving the body to a high level of orgasmic aliveness.


“This world is based mostly on male authority and has come to a point where female clarity and intuition are very much needed.
It is important that all women wake up their full orgasmic power,
because this can create a major shift of awareness in them and in men too.
As long as this female power is suppressed, it will not only keep women weak,
but it will also keep men starving for love, for softness, thus keeping them aggressive and competitive.
It is time for women to take responsibility to be authentically orgasmic in order to bring harmony in themselves and in the world.”



MATKA Meditation & Ritual Retreat 4 to 10 days

When a woman reconnects with the Flame of Creation within her womb and allows it to brighten her body, heart and spirit, she accesses the ‘vertical dimension’. This pathway supports her to channel the energy of her Medicine of Truth at the service of first her own Healing, her sexual pleasure and of her Awakening. The Medicine of Truth is rooted at the centre of creation, in the memory field of existence where we remember the essence of the life purpose such as love, consciousness, harmony, care… Every woman accesses this Medicine while in orgasm, lovemaking, menstruating, giving birth but she often misunderstood or misguided it due to the overwhelming pleasure, pain or frustration she often encounters in those experiences.

How to go at the centre of life energy?
How to tap into its Truth, its Purpose? And how to live it, to manifest it authentically, honestly?
While it might appear sometimes to be an impossible task, it is actually an inherent quality of every woman to use her sexuality to find her own Medicine of Truth and channel it creatively in her life. She just needs to revive the power of prayer, of gratitude, of creation, of intuition, of beauty and to re-learn to circulate properly her energy in her womb. In this way, her sexuality is not only used to create pleasure but offers a great source of empowerment, manifestation and clear insights. She can than re-establish the Medicine of Truth from where she gives birth to sacred sexuality, to words, forms and actions at the service of Creation and of her own Awakening and the one of others.

This retreat is a ‘renaissance’ of the Women Medicine of Truth using the female capacity to tap into the forces of Life Creative Energy awakening in her sexuality. It provides a field of Intuitive Wisdom where the body and heart of a woman is at service of Creation for it to manifest Beauty, Harmony and everything that benefits her spiritual evolution. This alignment offers a healthy sexuality rooted in the Forces of Truth, in the Memory of Life Purpose and it ignites the way a woman expresses creation in her life. This retreat is based on the Tantra Kaula Heart of All. It offers many Sacred Viewpoints from where women can look at themselves in new and ancient ways, and thus refreshing, regenerating, empowering their body, heart and spirit with Truth.

 The main areas of exploration:
– Guiding a man into lovemaking
– Orgasm Forces
– Receiving and Giving Energy
– Circulating, Directing Energy
– Expressing Creation Truthfully
– Tantra Ritual
– Creating Clear Intention & Direction
– Power of Prayer and Devotion
– Power of Manifestation
– Connection with the Great Mother

Pema’s sharing about women:
“…Women for some reason have become very lazy. They have given up! They do not open anymore into their wisdom because they have lost the access to their own Medicine. And this has immense consequences for the world.  Being the force of creation, being the ones giving birth to forms, women nevertheless do not take care anymore of what they create. As an example, women give birth to a boy and offer them guns for him to play with. They do not question anymore what the toys are about. They do not see that it supports violence. At the same time, the same women wonder why there are wars, rapes, all kind of abuse inflicted by men! Women have gone totally out of their connection to the Great Mother, to Harmony, so they have lost also the way to care for the whole, for the community, for their family, for their creation and for themselves too… I also see that in this laziness women have lost access not only to their wisdom but also to their own body, to their orgasmic potential and their own Medicine. It is interesting to see that women don’t even know how to give birth by themselves. They have to rely on hospitals, on doctors, on medication; and so totally separated from their nature, from their deep mother instincts…

Women have immense resources of orgasmic energies that, once awakened, allow them to vibrate on a totally different level of intelligence. On this level it is impossible for a woman to say to her boy: “go play with a gun, go kill…”. On this level, she will say to her boy: “be at the service of love, care for the whole…”. Once the woman is at her peak of energy and channels it in her body, heart and being, she reconnects with her wisdom which aligns her with Life… Life with a big L. Not the little stupid life ruled by our society, but a Life ruled by the intelligence of love and consciousness…

I like to believe that it is not too late for women to wake up and make a drastic change in their lives and the life of the community; a change that offers to all of us a life of harmony we are made to live but that we seem to have forgotten…

I offer this retreat with a deep longing that women reunite their being with their Medicine of Truth, with the wisdom of the Great Mother and the Great Mystery, with the power of Beauty, of Creation and the power to care for Creation…”

Upcoming retreats

MATKA Women Retreat 4-day
28 September 2023 - 01 October 2023, Meeuwenveen, Havelte


Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

RAJA Ritual

WildTantra Retreat for lovers


RAJA Ritual is an ancient Tantra ritual specially created for lovers. It opens an inner dimension between two lovers, from where they support the qualities of pleasure, love, and awareness in each other while they explore the sexual energy, the body and the senses as doorways to Awakening. It offers a new way of relating in which lovers are able to mirror the divineness of each other in their intimacy as much as in their daily life.

RAJA Ritual is a precious gift that enriches the intimacy with a new approach to love-making.  The lovers create a high frequency of orgasmic energy,  which nurtures and actualizes their potential of consciousness and love.

RAJA Ritual 8-days

RAJA Ritual unfolds different aspects of the lovers’ intimacy such as sexuality, conscious relating, devotion, creativity… It opens their energies, bodies, and understanding to new levels of sensuality, bliss and deep togetherness. The Ritual reveals and expands the divine resources as much as the orgasmic flow in the lovers, thus creating the possibility of a meeting beyond ego and personality where only love and consciousness remain to be experienced.

It expands the gestures of love-making into a sacred, endless union by uniting the power of the sexual energy with the alchemy of the heart. This process invites the lovers to integrate sex and love. It actualizes the potential of oneness within their intimacy and reveals the potential for Divine forces within the body and the sexual energy. It enables the lovers to uplift their intimacy into a realm of bliss, conscious love and soulmate relation.

The body is the microcosmos of the universe. While entering the body we enter the universe itself. The devotional aspect of the ritual allows the lovers to caress, kiss, and embrace all the forms contained in their bodies – the stars, the trees, the clouds… While this might appear as a beautiful poetic metaphor, the lovers do realize its truth by diving sincerely into all the precious gestures of this love-making ritual. When, through your beloved, you discover that the universe is as much within as outside of yourself, it creates a totally new type of intimate relating with everything and everyone around you. There is a sense of gratitude, of reverence for life, towards existence, your beloved, and your family. This gratefulness that unfolds in you makes you live life with great joy.

RAJA Ritual gives the lovers the key to harmony, balance, peace and silence both within themselves and in their relation. It nurtures their intimacy with sweetness, care, depth and fulfillment on all levels of meeting – physical as much as spiritual.

The main areas of exploration:
– Learning the steps of the RAJA Ritual
– Practicing the Yoga of Creation
– Entering the Great Desire
– Centering in the Heart
– Opening up the Devotion
– Creating a conscious relation

What Pema says about this retreat?
“There are a few aspects in the way of lovemaking from the Raja Ritual. The first one consists in realizing that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are creating patterns of energy within us and our partner. During the Ritual you use these patterns of energy with a clear intention of love in order to uplift your lovemaking into a high frequency of bliss. The second aspect is about the biological aspect of the energy we generate during intercourse. This energy if not used for the creation of a child, can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the patterns of energy mentioned above with the biological force of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process shifting love intercourse into a totally new dimension where every union with a partner actualizes the potential of Divine forces of creation within the body, the heart and the sexual energy.
One more aspect is about Desire which is one of the powerful energy fueling the Raja Ritual. There is a deep understanding about desire, which is whatever we desire we want to be one with. It means desire is also a key for oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire totally, as to come to a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation bringing about blissful experiences beyond words.”


Osho on intimacy:

“… If you can go on growing in this intimacy, which is no more excitement, then love will arise: first excitement, then love, then joy. Joy is the ultimate product, the fulfillment. Excitement is just a beginning, a triggering; it is not the end. And those who finish at excitement will never know what love is, will never know the mystery of love, will never know the joy of love. They will never know how beautiful it is to be with a person with no excitement but with silence, with no words, with no effort to do anything. Just being together, sharing one space, one being, sharing each other, not thinking of what to do, what to say, where to go, how to enjoy; all those things are gone. The storm is over and there is silence. And it is not that you will not make love but it will not be a making really; it will be love happening. It will happen out of grace, out of silence, out of rhythm; it will arise from your depths, it will not be bodily really. There is a sex which is spiritual, which has nothing to do with the body. Although the body partakes in it, participates in it, it is not the source of it. Then sex takes on the color of Tantra, only then…”


Upcoming retreats
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Registration & Information: yuliakondyreva@gmail.com

Inner Medicine Way

Healing retreat for singles & lovers


In our society, words such as “Healing”, “Medicine” have been spoiled, misused to the point we lost the connection with their true meaning. As a result, we became disconnected from our ability to tap into their power. Finding ourselves confronted with inner obstacles that require the use of that power, we find ourselves helplessly pulled down into destructive patterns.
The word Memory has been reduced to describe the ability of our brain to store information. Most of this information that we are being asked to remember is an unnecessary load of crap, which creates major confusion within us. Healing, Memory and Medicine were once words referring to very sacred dimensions and paths that were supporting to keep each personal evolution in harmony with life, nature, beauty, love…

The Inner Medicine Way retreat revives these ancient ways so we can remember and manifest our creative uniqueness and diversity with Clarity, Respect and Peace. These ancient ways enable us to co-create a healthy world in tune with the highest qualities of love and consciousness.

Inner Medicine Way retreat 4 to 10 days

What is the process about:

The retreat shares the Inner Medicine methods, focusing on healing and transforming patterns that slow down or pull down the ascension of your energy into a state of Clarity. The methods are anchored in the profound understanding of the essence of Memory, such as the natural equilibrium of order and chaos, which keeps your creativity to be at service for the highest expression of life. The methods offer precious practices to support the recognition and removal of all obscuration. They restore your ability to connect your life’s purpose with the one of existence. They support you to generate healthy thoughts, emotions and actions that benefit your evolution towards becoming a mature human being.
The retreat is a mysterious, yet pragmatic way to activate the fibre of Memory in you, for you to walk your life in harmony with the whole.

Here are some of the main topics we explore during the retreat:

– Understanding of energy’s upward and downward spiral movements
– Ancestral, historical, biological Memory map
– Recognizing inner obscuration
– Unlocking healing forces in us
– Calling out the Elements of Nature to revitalize our own forces
– Finding, activating the Inner Medicine
– Practicing Inner Medicine methods
– Growing up from adolescent to mature adult
– The main negative emotions
– Defying gravity
– Taking responsibility for healing our inner obstacles
– Remembering the Ancestral Memory
– Grounding ourselves in our Inner Direction, Life Purpose
– The power of Prayer and right saying
– Ceremony of the 4 Altars
– The Mandala of the seven directions.
– The Centre of the Centre
– The navel protection and nourishment
– Digesting energies, emotions, memories…

What Pema says about this retreat?

Since many years, I have observed that healing methods are important on the Path of Tantra.

I see many of us confronted with inner obstacles, restricting the energy to rise to a higher realm of consciousness. It can be very frustrating to constantly bang your head on the same wall of pain, of misunderstanding, of deep-rooted convictions working against your evolution… I call this the loop!
You initially progress on the path, you feel finally out of destructive restrictive patterns, and boom, here it comes again! The same loop of emotions, of inner conflicts; a downfall spiral starts sucking you into inner darkness that you thought was gone forever.

How to encounter this downward spiral of our energy in a healthy way?
How to use it to heal, to transform these forces pulling us down into misery over and over again, in spite of all the sincere efforts we do to stay bright and high on the wave of love?

How to be-friend the downward energy spiral, the inner chaos?

Therapy is a no-go for me, so I had to look for something else: Memory…. such a mysterious phenomenon!

This might be why I was pulled to look there; I have always been attracted by Mystery. At the start of my enquiry into the realm of Memory, I didn’t expect it would be such a life- changing journey. I dived into it with a deep intuitive knowing I would find the “key” to remove my obscuration.  I was certain to find answers on how to  keep my energy rising stable, or to heal  anything that pushed me down… How little I knew of what I would find!

I will not elaborate on how and where I found the methods to enter the realm of Memory, but I can at least share some of the treasures I found. As for the methods, if you like to explore and discover them you are warmly invited to join the Inner Medicine Way retreats.

For now, few major jewels from the Memory realm I found:

A complete destruction of everything I thought what love is, what reality is and who I am… That was the first blow and it was hard, really hard! I did resist at first, because I wanted to maintain my structure in order to still feel my stability: a ground to walk on, to speak, act, work…
But the deeper I went into this dimension of Memory, the less I could maintain my point of view. I had to drop it, otherwise I would not have been able to move on. I found myself totally stripped down of all knowing, directions, ideas, concepts… This has been the first master key of Memory:  to make me forget everything!
Only then remembrance took place and with it so much healing happened. The major work in that stage was to encounter painful events with the right remembrance. This took me a long time to learn. While remembering a painful event, what we truly remember? Have you ever pondered on this?… Interesting isn’t it! How to go there without being sucked down into the pain, into the misunderstanding that was created in us out of this event?

I revived so many situations of pain, of misery, of hate, of fight, of basically everything in my life that pulled down the upward spiraling of my energy. Each time, the only thing I had to do was to remember the love I disconnected from  in those moments! What a profound lesson! The forgetfulness of Love is what creates the most profound pain. I might have been beaten up in my past. But the physical pain is nothing compared to the forgetfulness of Love in the moment I got beaten up.

Once my most precious Master in that process told me:

“You are free. You can do whatever you want in this creation.
You can make all the mistakes in the world. But there is a very dangerous one;  to forget Love.
This leads to a darkness that is very difficult to come out of.”


In the land of Memory, I had to learn to remember Love no matter the inner or outer situation.

Years have passed since I first started this process. I did sharpen my remembrance. It is not easy, I must admit.
In every step I encountered so much healing.  Insights and gifts showered over me and yet,  the tendency to fall asleep, to forget was so tempting because of its so-called comfort and security. The road to the land of Memory asks great awareness, sharpness, discipline, stamina, passion but no sleep! And I shall add: a good sense of humour!
When the remembrance of Love becomes stable, another dimension opens in the vast land of Memory.
What are we here for?
What are we here to contribute, to manifest?
And how to do it? The seed of an oak tree knows (remembers) to grow as an oak tree and not as a banana tree. We also  have this inner memory showing us what we are meant to be(come). And for some reason we are not taping into it.  The result?  We try to be a banana tree instead of an oak tree. Maybe this is our way to remember… Our journey is very interesting!


The stage of reclaiming the memory of who we are and what we are here for, made me enter the great Weaving of Existence.

I learned  to recognise the interaction between everything that exists. One of the major lessons: to use duality and polarity without creating division nor separation. Instead,  create harmony. This stage also offers tremendous healing forces and deep confrontation with everything in us that creates separation such as judgments, stuck opinions, self-deceptions and the so-called pretender “I am”!
Once there is stability in this stage,  the Memory of Love opens it magical, overwhelming dimension. Hence, I will keep silent because I am still learning to fly into it. I can only share that finally life makes sense.
It is where I am now in my Memory journey. I am not stating this is the end of the travel. I can sense there is much more to be discovered. But I can see that all the methods that brought me to this point are an immense gift and need to be shared.

It is only this winter while traveling in Peru that suddenly, I felt I was ready to share it all. I was not in a hurry though. My intention was to wait until next year; to take my time to set up a good structured retreat for it.  But the worldly circumstances showing up since some months have accelerated my longing to share this Inner Medicine Way with all of you.

I am grateful we can be together in the Memory of Love.
I am grateful we can all weave our unique tread.
I bow with love and gratitude to your capacity to weave in harmony, creating more beauty at every step of your life.
With the wish to share, to learn, to heal, to celebrate with you….



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“Awakening the Memory of Love…”