Can I register for only one retreat of the Path of Awakening, or must I complete the entire program?
WildTantra Path of Awakening is organised as a two-year process, with each retreat building on the previous one. Priority is given to those who book the entire first year of the Path of Awakening. If you wish to attend just one retreat, you might sign up for our stand-alone retreat, such as the Aham retreat, Raja retreat, etc.

Do I need to register for the two-year process or just the one-year process of the Path of Awakening?
You must first register for the first-year process before signing up for the second year. After completing the first year, we will determine who is eligible to participate in the second year.

What are the Advanced retreats?
The intensity of the process shared in these retreats requires you to have experience with tantric meditation and, preferably, to have completed the first year of The WildTantra Path of Awakening. During these retreats, you need to easily contain and circulate your energy, and be able to observe your mind and emotions without them causing tension.

Where do the WildTantra retreats take place?
The Path of Awakening retreats and a few other retreats take place in the Netherlands. All the stand-alone retreats we offer take place in various European and Eastern countries. We also sometimes provide retreats in Indonesia and South America. In our calendar, you see the location for each retreat.

What is the teaching language in the retreats?
The teaching language is English and, on rare occasions, there is translation into the language most closely aligned with the majority of the participants’ spoken languages.

Do you offer an extra discount?
For people under 30, we provide an additional 10% discount on the prices of the First- and Second-Year Programs of the Path of Awakening.

I am homosexual. Can I participate in your retreats?
Yes, you are warmly welcomed, provided you are willing to practice some meditations with someone of the opposite gender.

I am pregnant. Can I participate in your retreats?
WildTantra welcomes pregnant women to attend workshops only if the content is gentle and requires minimal physical or emotional effort. For workshops involving more intense physical or emotional engagement, we kindly suggest waiting until after pregnancy, as this is a delicate time that requires dedicated care. Remember, pregnancy is a beautiful nine-month tantric journey!

I am taking medication or have some health or psychological issues.
Can I participate in your retreats?
Your physical and psychological health should be good and stable enough to follow our program. If you are taking medication, we need to know what it is and why you are taking it. Depending on the medication, we might not accept you into our retreats because we have found that our intensive energy work can conflict with certain medications. Before being fully accepted into our retreats, we ask you to complete a registration form that includes questions about your physical and mental health. If we assess that your condition is not compatible with the work we offer, we may not be able to include you. We can provide suggestions on how to prepare for the retreat or recommend alternative approaches that better suit your needs.

Are some preparations needed before attending the retreats?
During all our retreats, you are put on a vegan diet without sugar and coffee. This might trigger a detox process in your body during the retreat. To prevent it from becoming too intense for your body, we recommend preparing for the retreat by gradually removing from your diet foods and drinks that will not be offered during the retreat.

How do you handle personal information?
We collect some personal information about you when you register for a year-long program, retreat or event. In our privacy statement, you can read how we use this information.

When I register for a year-long program, retreat or event, how will the payment be arranged, and what if I want to cancel?
You can find the payment and cancellation policy for the retreats here.

Do you have a Code of Conduct?
Yes, we have one. Read it here

The second year of the Path of Awakening is dedicated to learning and practising specific Tantra rituals that circulate Life Energy in a continuous vital flow, harnessing its power to access our innate state of Consciousness. The emphasis is on embracing all polarities, paradoxes, and diversity without preference, using discernment, and harmoniously weaving them together. In this process, significant work is done on exploring the power of perception, intuition, intention, language, sound, and symbols. This work remains deeply rooted in the physical body, still involving sensuality but with more focus on vitality and grounding. Additionally, there is a profound inquiry into our inner obstacles, the responsibility for what we manifest, and the dynamics of life/death, attachment/detachment. The practices and rituals encourage the dissolution of identification with the circumference of the personality, resulting in centring in the silence and resources of the Supreme Heart (Hridya), the inner space where the impersonal self (Aham) resides and shines.

Some of the questions you will ask yourself on the Path and walk with the answer:

• • Who am I?
  • What am I afraid of?
  • Am I ready to live the conditioned circumference of my personality?
  • Am I ready to enter the Heart-Consciousness Centre?
  • Am I willing to be absorbed by Love?
  • Am I authentic, or am I just pretending?
  • Am I responsible for what I manifest?
  • Am I prepared to encounter reality directly?
  • Am I seeing clearly, or am I deceiving myself with gratifying illusions?
  • What is my relation to power?
  • What are my choices, decisions, and intentions in life?
  • Do I prioritise my awakening, or do I compromise to fit in with others’ sleepiness?

Join us and discover the answers during the retreats!

Second year Retreats:
5. SILENT ORGASM 5-day
6. INNER DIAMOND 5-day
7. NOOR RITUAL 5-day

WildTantra Path of Awakening for singles & lovers

It is equally open for singles and lovers. It is structured as a 2-year process, with each retreat building upon the previous one. For the second-year retreats, participation in the first-year retreats is required. To elevate your life to a high level of love and consciousness, we invite you to fully engage in the two-year process, as it deepens your transformation with every step.

Program Overview in the Netherlands & Prices 2026*

This day is meant for people who wish to join the WildTantra year-long process, “Path of Awakening”, or are simply interested in getting to know us before deciding to join.

It offers you the opportunity to experience some of our methods and feel if this Path is for you. It is as much for you to get to know us as it is for us to get to know you, as we want to be able to inform you that you are “fit” to enrol for our intensive retreats.

Here are some topics we explore:

• • Understanding the WildTantra approach
  • Experience some of our methods
  • Get to know us and us to know you
  • Get the approval from Pema to join the year-long process

Upcoming introduction day:

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This retreat guides you to embody not only the physical body, but your orgasmic body named the ‘Tantra Body’.

The Tantra Body is the body that unites all of what you are and that experiences life’s unity through all the senses, feelings, and thoughts. The ‘Tantra Body’ is your foundation on the Path of Awakening and living a balanced, fulfilling and conscious life. The retreat process aims to restore coherence among the body, heart, and mind, bypassing mechanisms and conditioning that generate a sense of separation, bodily tension, and a lack of love and awareness. During the retreat, you are provided with the space, situations, and methods to birth your ‘Tantra Body’ by reviving your sense of wonder, spontaneity and sacredness, by opening your sensuality, your body’s capacity for pleasure, and activating your ability to be present in the moment.

Main Explorations:

• • Restoring coherence between mind, heart, and body
  • Kindling the fire of Gratitude
  • Returning to your natural pleasure flow
  • Releasing fears that hinder deep pleasure and living life fully
  • Reviving the Sacred within
  • Cultivating nourishing physical relationships with yourself and others
  • Opening to the Kaula field

The Tantra Body by Pema:

“We tend to live life through the mind’s conditioning. In our societies, the mind has become the centre of our experiences. We particularly favour one of the mind’s mechanisms that separates, divides, and interprets over its intuitive nature. Allowing the rational, analytical side of the mind to dominate causes us to bypass direct experience through the body and the heart. Our experiences are coloured by the mind’s judgments: good or bad, like or dislike, but never with wonder or unity from the heart and body. The ego is sustained and strengthened by this mental game, while the body and heart gradually wither from loneliness and neglect. This significantly affects how we relate to life as a whole. It fosters a sense of separation that manifests as tension, numbness, overconsumption, and overexcitement. It cloaks the heart in emotions such as anger, jealousy, and greed. It floods the mind with depressive, anxious, and competitive thoughts. Over time, various illnesses and frustrations develop without us understanding why. We have become victims of our own ignorant and arrogant mind games.
The suffering caused by these games prompts us to make choices about our lives, relationships, society, environment, families, and work that are entirely disconnected from life, nature, love, and consciousness. To return to a harmonious way of living, we need coherence among the body, heart, and mind; what I call the Tantra Body. This involves embodying the physical body, mind, and heart as a single sacred vessel, where senses, breath, sexuality, thoughts, feelings, and emotions work together to manifest the highest expression of consciousness. The Tantra Body is our harmonious state and an authentic way to live. In this united state, we are at our best because rooted in our potential, which is to be a conscious, loving human being at the service of life’s beauty and not a programmed, divided, fearful, destructive, aggressive, arrogant person damaging the very foundation that gives birth to him/her.”

Upcoming retreat:

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The retreat offers understanding of the dynamics of sex and man-woman relationships by exploring the depth of orgasms as our capacity to give, receive, and access bliss.

In this intimate journey, emphasis is placed on healing the genitals and emotional aspects from misconceptions, trauma, beliefs, social, and religious conditioning. You are introduced to methods that restore the natural pleasure abilities of your genitals and body. You learn to let go into deep pleasure, activate the orgasmic points in the genitals, slow down rather than rush into excitement, and develop awareness of sensations. This results in channelling a high level of orgasmic flow into the body and heart for deeper, more fulfilling sexual experiences, but most importantly, for using them as a gateway to love and consciousness.

During this retreat, women and men are separated for several days before regrouping for specific practices. This enables them to explore the unique issues, topics, and qualities of their respective genders. We create a supportive, loving, and sacred environment where everyone feels safe to open up to the delicate journey.

Main Explorations:

• • Learning about male and female orgasms
  • Regaining your capacity for orgasm if you lost it or if you can’t find it
  • Expanding the orgasm you already experience to reach deeper fulfilment
  • Healing your genitals from past trauma, misuse, and misunderstanding
  • Letting go of destructive associations and addiction to sex
  • Restoring the capacity toacred touch
  • Elevating the relationship between man and woman to love and consciousness
  • Learning the Pillars of Sacred Intimacy

Orgasm by Pema:

“When orgasm is triggered in the body, it opens a space beyond the body, a space beyond duality and nonduality, which could be called oneness. The energy of orgasm first surges through the body, fueling our nerves, muscles, and senses with pleasure. This triggers the brain to release the neurotransmitter DMT, often referred to as the molecule of bliss. This powerful chemistry sparks a coming ‘back home’ moment in which everything aligns within us, making us feel one and blissful. This occurs in a split second, a brief moment we often miss due to lack of awareness, not knowing how to circulate our energy, and over-attachment to bodily sensations. This moment is very precious. It can reveal where we originate, what we are made of and who we truly are. Learning how to access this space provoked by orgasm forms the foundation of all Tantra practices. You can learn it through sex, as well as from taking a shower, walking in the forest… any human activity can lead you into this oneness state. From sexuality, it is very physical, and it involves most of the time the genitals, but we also have the senses, feelings, emotions, and the mind as a door to this oneness. We tend to describe orgasm as the release of energy in the genitals, but in Tantra teaching, orgasm is layered with many types of experiences, most of which do not involve the genitals. Tantra teaches us not only about genital orgasms but all the different orgasmic ways to experience oneness. We start with the physical orgasm because, for most of us, it is the most natural and direct way to access oneness. Once we learn to navigate it, we open ourselves to many more ways to enter oneness.

The Damage:

“Even though we yearn for orgasm, we are simultaneously afraid of it. We carry a dilemma shaped by education and social or religious conditioning: ‘Sex is dirty, bad, wrong, evil… It is God’s gift, but only to make children… If you enjoy sex, you are a whore…’ You might initially think you aren’t influenced by these beliefs, but they play in the background and constantly limit your bliss. The connection between Sex and the Divine has been taboo for thousands of years. This has become a disease in humanity. We need healing, love, and understanding to restore the natural ability to rejoice with the divine through sex.”

Men and Women relating:

“While exploring this healing dimension, another aspect naturally comes into view: our identity as men and women, which is shaped by social rules and conditioning. Being a man is not about being strong, powerful, competitive, or dominant, and being a woman is not about being fragile, emotional, needy, or manipulative. Identifying with these stereotypes creates very immature men and women, who then relate to each other through wanting, needing, domination, submission… Tantra offers a completely different approach to relating, which is rooted in sharing and support. It generates a new quality of men and women who love, respect deeply, and support each other’s awakening. At WildTantra, we aim to nurture such men and women!“

Upcoming retreat:

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This retreat is dedicated to activating and harmonising kundalini, the life force, by exploring the subtle body and regulating its Prana flow through the chakras.

Since Kundalini embodies divine creative power, bliss, and grace, you are encouraged to connect with these qualities through practices like self-enquiry, intention-setting, breathwork, sound, and worship. Additionally, you will learn to shift your perspective and gain a broader view of yourself, existence, and reality. When approached with sincere dedication, this process can lead to various effects, such as transforming pleasure into bliss, elevating from ego-centred living to a service-oriented life, and uniting Energy and Consciousness within you. These are not just promises but potential outcomes you can gradually work towards during the retreat with genuine intention.

Main Explorations:

• • Awakening Kundalini flow
  • Learning and exploring the Chakra map
  • Circulating and containing energy
  • Opening to energetic orgasms
  • Supporting positive qualities
  • Shifting to non-conflict
  • Entering and navigating the Subtle body
  • Surrendering to the Goddess force
  • Understanding and dropping addiction

Kundalini by Pema:

“Tantra defines Kundalini as the Energy of Consciousness. For Consciousness to manifest and express itself, it needs energy; otherwise, it remains as unmanifested Consciousness. Tantric iconography depicts Consciousness as Shiva and Energy as Kundalini Shakti, viewing this divine couple as the Cosmos. The vibration resulting from their union shapes all forms. We are the dance of vibration of Shiva-Shakti just as much as a tree, a flower, or a stone is. However, this does not mean we are necessarily aware of it. An intriguing ‘spell’ plays within the dance: forgetting and remembering! This is where Tantra enters the play: How do we remember we are the union of Shiva-Shakti? How to be in the state of Oneness surging from their union?
When the Divine Couple, Consciousness and Energy, gives birth to us, we are in the state of a seed that needs to sprout and grow to its complete flowering. We, as a seed, are complete, but asleep, unaware of our full potential. To wake up from sleepiness and realise who we are (Shiva-Shakti), Tantra has developed methods and a map to activate our growth and our realisation of Oneness. The methods and the map, in essence, deactivate the “spell” of forgiveness and activate its counterpart: remembrance. The “spell” is not a curse but a play! In the Tantra map, we find chakras (vortexes), little ‘stations’ where the Kundalini flows through. They are all situated in our subtle body and have a direct connection to our physical body. Depending on the Tantra tradition, there might be 5 to 7, or even 12, chakras. Every chakra represents unique qualities and a state of consciousness. In the subtle body, the first chakra (Muladhara) is connected to the base of the spine, where the Kundalini is dormant. The play is to wake it up and invite it to rise through all the chakras, activating the potentials residing in them. The waking up of Kundalini is the beginning of remembrance. Kundalini flowing through the chakras animates all potentials already present in our ‘seed state’. It doesn’t suddenly add something new into our system; it simply unveils what is already there. This is why its work is called remembrance, or realisation of what is already and has always been present in us. Shiva-Shakti are here, and now within us; the point is to remember them and live through them.
When I say that we are the seed, sprout, growth, and flower, in some way, we already are the flower. However, because we are in a state of forgetfulness, we do not see what we truly are: the flower. These metaphors are important to understand because we are not incomplete and are not here to achieve something. Tantra strips down the whole idea of a goal or achievement. Through the metaphor of seed and flower, it might seem that we have something to attain, but that is not the case. In summary, the work with Kundalini is about remembering and realising what we are. This process can be long or short; it all depends on our dedication, intention, and ability to surrender, to merge into the Divine Couple.”

Upcoming retreat:

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This retreat focuses on learning and practising the Arya Tantra Yoga of Creation, which merges the force of desire with the devotional alchemy of the heart, using the gesture of lovemaking as a pathway to uncover the inner mysteries of creation.

The lovemaking postures are seen as patterns of the sacred geometry of creation. In the practice, you enter and follow the vibration of these patterns and postures to return to the source of creation. Although the practice significantly transforms your sexual life by shifting you from ego-centred sexuality to a conscious and nurturing sexuality, it primarily supports you to centre yourself in the Supreme Heart, where oneness is experienced. Throughout the process, you put into practice the Tantra Body you have developed during the three previous retreats.

Important Information: There is no sexual intercourse in this retreat! It focuses on lovemaking, which does not necessarily require penetration. We share a remarkable lovemaking method you can incorporate into your current or future relationships.

Main Explorations:

• • Refining intercourse to the Arya Tantra
  • Opening to the Arya Yoga of Creation
  • Entering the Great Desire
  • Building clear intention in lovemaking
  • Awakening the qualities of devotion/worship
  • Being in touch with the Divine creation within you
  • Trust in your capacity to embrace and create a life that supports you

Desire and Arya Tantra by Pema:

“The Arya Tantra involves several aspects. One of them is recognising that all the postures we adopt during sexual intercourse create energy patterns within ourselves and our partner. In the Ritual, you deliberately use these energy patterns with a clear intention of love to elevate your lovemaking into a higher frequency of bliss. Another aspect concerns the biological energy generated during intercourse. If this energy is not used to create a child, it can be harnessed for other forms of creation. In the Ritual, you combine these energy patterns with the biological force of creation to generate both inner and outer forms. It is a mysterious process that transforms lovemaking into a completely new dimension, where, in union with a partner, we actualise the Divine forces of creation within the body and the heart.
Another aspect is Desire, a powerful energy driving the Arya Yoga of Creation. There is a profound understanding that whatever we desire, we want to become one with. A deeper aspect is that we are already what we desire. While desire often leads us astray, during the ritual, we harness its energy as a powerful key to oneness. During the Ritual, we tap into desire to reach a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. This is a powerful transformation that brings forth blissful experiences beyond words.”

Arya Wisdom of the Yoga of Creation:

“My dear lovers, I did mention to you that many things can be created out of the Yoga of Creation recipe. Actually, everything is created out of it. Created and also de-created, or better to say transformed. What is happening within your body when you move into the Yoga of Creation is the same happening in this big universe around us. The play of creation in the universe is the same as in your body. You do not need to go looking at the stars to figure out how they were born. Go looking down into your body, and you will know because they are unfolding there too. In your body, you can see the whole creation of existence. Stars, plants, animals… all are born in your body, and you are also born in all of them. The play of creation is the same for everyone and everything, even though the forms coming out of it differ. If you are stuck looking at the forms, you might think that creation is different for everything and for everyone, but it is not. It all comes out of the same Yoga, of the same dance, of the same force of desire. The Great Desire is the chef cook in this big kitchen of the universe! In the Yoga of Creation, you need to rely on the Great Desire. It is the force moving your bodies towards each other. It is the force fuelling your energy and giving the spark for its actions. Now, consciously or unconsciously, you can participate in it. And it is consciously that you need to move into it in order for its hidden mystery to be revealed to you. Unconsciously, you will only see the by-products of creation, such as the fruits on the trees, the blossoming flowers on the plants, the baby from the womb of the woman, but you will not be taken by its Beauty, its Truth…” Extract from the book Tantra Vol. II, The Hidden Mysteries from Pema Gitama.

Upcoming retreat:

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This retreat is dedicated to a precious Tantra ritual that circulates life energy in a loop by lifting it from the first chakra (genitals) to the seventh and then guiding it back down, rising again to the seventh.

It is a closed, orgasmic, blissful energy circle that can remain inward or be extended to a partner. The practice encourages surrendering sex to love and consciousness while still enjoying the raw wildness of the physical realm. It connects the lower and higher energies, the small and vast, the personal and transpersonal within you. The outcome is the ability to stay grounded and soaring simultaneously. It creates an orgasmic paradox where a silent orgasm occurs in a space beyond time, form, gender, personality, and ego.

Main Explorations:

• • Awakening the Inner Circle
  • Circulating energy within yourself and a partner
  • Surrender sex to love and consciousness
  • Letting go of the sense of separation
  • Transmuting sexual energy to sensual awakening
  • Stepping out of mind’s limitative deception
  • Expanding to silent communion
  • Resting into the silent orgasm

The Circle of Light by Pema:

“We tend to feel incomplete, so we look for someone or something to complete us. In this vain search, we only face momentary illusory completion that leads to frustration, restlessness and a constant running after something to complement us. In this hope of meeting our soulmate, the one that will complete us, we forget one essential point: In this state of hope, we are not at home within ourselves; we are not in oneness. This way, we will meet someone with the same reality. Two people not centred in themselves, hoping the other will give them a sense of oneness. This results in two beggars trying to get something from the other while they are both empty-handed. While our energy is engaged to find something or someone outside to fulfil or complete us, we are not receiving or giving. We are begging! This state of relationship leads to a lot of struggles and is definitely not nurturing.

The main aspect of the Circle of Light method and ritual is to realise that we are one within ourselves by harmonising and circulating the energy dynamic of giving and receiving within ourselves into a luminous, fulfilling circle of energy. It generates an “at home” state which is peaceful, silent, and blissful. We feel complete, which doesn’t mean we are no longer meeting anyone! In fact, we can finally truly meet. While the Circle of Light is an inner circulation of energy, it can be shared with another person. Two people with their Circles of Light beautifully flowing can expand and circulate their circles into each other. It transforms their meeting into an endless embrace, a profound spiritual experience of oneness both within themselves and with the other. Another interesting aspect of the Circle of Light is that it dissolves the limiting concept of lower and higher, small and vast, personal and transpersonal. We are very one-sided in our perception. If we see small, we forget the big, the vast. In the circulation of the Circle of Light, we navigate between low and high, matter and space, earth and sky… When we are at the height of the Circle, we are still anchored in its lower space. On a chakra level, this means we have an anchor in the first chakra while simultaneously being at the seventh. On a bodily level, it means transcending sex while still enjoying its sensations. This is a powerful practice with profound implications not only on a sexual level but also on how we perceive and live life. From that Circle of Light state, we can approach life diversity as a beautiful divine play. We can live all the opposite aspects of life without preference because we finally know they all nurture one another.”

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The purpose of this retreat is to activate the pineal gland, also known as the third eye.

Using specific techniques from various Tantra traditions, the gland is activated to unveil its mystical qualities, allowing you to perceive beyond duality and non-duality, rekindle intuition, and sharpen awareness. While cultivating the qualities of the third eye, you learn and practise the Tantra Diamond ritual. This ritual shifts you from a limited perspective, conditioned by fear, social ideas and concepts of reality, to a third-eye view, akin to an eagle soaring high in the sky of consciousness. It observes reality from an elevated vantage point, enabling you to see aspects normally beyond your senses. This process offers an opportunity to understand the dynamics of dreams and reality, chaos and order, heart and third eye, and to centre yourself in higher consciousness.

Main Explorations:

• • Activating the Third Eye potentials
  • Tuning to higher frequencies of consciousness
  • Entering the realm of clarity, intuition
  • Understanding the heart and third eye dynamics
  • Clearing the relation with power
  • Enquiring who you are

Third Eye by Pema:

“The pineal gland is an endocrine gland responsible for producing melatonin, serotonin, and neurotransmitters that influence sexual development and sleep-wake cycles. It is also known for producing DMT, which triggers an altered state of consciousness. While the pineal gland’s physiological function remained unknown until recent times, mystical traditions and esoteric schools have long recognised this region in the middle of the brain as the link between the physical and spiritual worlds. Known as the Third Eye, the Seat of the Soul, this mysterious treasure is considered a gateway to inner realms and higher states of consciousness. It plays an important role in our psychological well-being and, most significantly, is crucial for unlocking our perception of reality and connecting directly to consciousness and truth. It is notable that we live in a society that actively suppresses the pineal gland’s function with additives in our water and food. By blocking the third eye’s access to higher consciousness, we risk creating a society of slaves functioning at a minimum level of consciousness in a kind of sleepwalking state where everyone can be controlled. This limits our potential for awakening, love, clarity, and intelligence. The awakening of the third eye is not merely a mystical experience; it is fundamentally about reclaiming our full capacity to live as awakened beings instead of conditioned robots. In short, activating the third eye is about reclaiming our freedom!”

Upcoming retreat:

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This retreat guides you into the confronting space of the Noor Ritual, where the power of sacred sounds, words, symbols, and plants helps you resolve the inner illusion of death

and everything that prevents you from experiencing life directly. While learning the steps of the ritual, special care is taken to clarify your fear of death, attachment to deceptive inner concepts, false identity, and various types of relationships. This profound process is a dive into the heart of emptiness, the zero point where nothing moves, where forms have not yet appeared, and where thoughts are not yet born. It invites you to rest and shine in the blissful silence of your Buddha nature.

Main Explorations:

• • Dissolving inner illusions, obstacles
  • Facing death, attachment and non-attachment
  • Power of sacred sounds, words and plants
  • Protecting and purifying your energy field
  • Activating the Third Eye potentials
  • Grounding into silence

Facing Emptiness by Pema:

“On our inner journey, we all encounter limitations and resistance at some point, leaving us feeling completely stuck. No matter what we do to move through these moments, it often seems like nothing works. We get caught in a loop, which I sometimes call a bad trip! We believe in our thoughts and fear. We identify with them. We build a whole personality around them, along with some reassuring concepts about reality and our place within it. We seek an explanation, even if it’s not rational, at least a spiritual or religious one that explains the why and how of the reality we experience. Without it, we face emptiness, which is apparently intolerable for most of us. Let’s be honest: we are afraid not to have something to cling to. We have created many Gods to reassure us and to explain what reality is and what our place and role within it are. But there comes a point when we go deeper into ourselves, and none of those concepts holds true. We can choose to escape by clinging to entertaining thoughts, or to go deeper and face the inevitable: Emptiness!
This is equivalent to dying, and therefore, not easy to encounter because we are afraid of death. Tantra is deeply concerned with this inner state, and it has developed various techniques to help us move beyond the ego’s survival mechanisms, which activate the fear of death. These methods, often called esoteric or magical, use sacred sounds, words, symbols, and plants to remove inner obstacles and misunderstandings, heal if necessary, strengthen the observer, and activate inner powers and energy. Learning these methods is highly effective because they liberate us from our ego-fear, not by fighting it but by reabsorbing its energy into awareness. The esoteric aspect of Tantra is not about creating superficial magic; it is about creating real magic: awakening to reality! It involves having the courage to die before dying so we can live awake and not asleep.”

Upcoming retreat:

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What is Reality? We can answer this question in various intellectual, scientific, religious or philosophical ways, yet we will never be satisfied. All the answers will motivate new questions. Tantra found a very profound way to answer this existential question by offering methods of meditation that support us in recognising the true nature of reality. The Vigyan Bhairav Tantra (VBT), one of the oldest Shivaist Tantra scriptures, contains 112 methods that explore the body, breath, senses, pleasure, heart, emotions, dreams, and sounds. It is a vehicle for a direct encounter with the essence of reality.

AHAM REALITY Retreat is a unique transformative process where you practice some of the most profound methods of the VBT. Through these methods, you can awaken your perception of Reality and ignite your capacity to weave all opposite energies and forces within you. It is a unique opportunity to unfold your ability to enter the space of Hridaya, the Supreme Heart, where everything is Consciousness.

The journey cuts through illusions, projections, judgements, interpretations and manipulation of Reality. It is a deep purification process activating the clear, true Seeing, which the physical eyes cannot see. The process also offers a deep understanding of the mechanisms of the mind, emotions, and body structure. Most of the methods are body-oriented and do not deny sensorial pleasure or sexuality, but they use them as tools to provoke higher states of consciousness. In this journey, you learn to celebrate the delicate nectar of life within you and to rest in your inner sanctuary of silence, calmness, and joy, as well as how to manifest it in your daily activities and relationships.

The main areas of exploration:
– Hridaya (the Supreme Heart)
– Breath Awareness
– Shunya (void)
– Light and Darkness
– Yoga
– Devotional ritual
– Mantra and Sound
– Visualisation
– Senses

For whom is this retreat?
This retreat is open to everyone who longs to dive deep into traditional Tantra practice and the longing for freedom, love, and consciousness. It is suitable for both beginners and long-time practitioners. Whatever your level, you will benefit from the process because meditation practices can only deepen the more you practice them. You can approach meditation practices from any point: beginning, middle, or end. Wherever you are, you grow within the practice!

Structure of the Retreat:
The retreat is structured with whole-day and night practices, starting at 7 a.m. and finishing around midnight. This intensive rhythm is alternated with breaks for meals and walking in nature.

Upcoming retreats

Love is Unconditional! We wish it and dream it, but how can we be unconditional with our love when jealousy, envy, possession, and manipulation are ruling the expressions of our hearts? In Tantra, there are no intellectual answers to this; there are only challenging situations and precise methods that can awaken the capacity for unconditional love. In the tradition of the Kaula Heart of All, unconditional love is to be found in the dynamic of our relationships. The practices from this Tantric tradition are based on exploring awareness in relation to oneself, other people, animals, plants, and the whole of nature. In the Vigyan Bhairav Tantra (VBT), an ancient Shivaist Tantra scripture, unconditional love is explored through methods involving the body, breath, senses, pleasure, and sounds. These traditions emphasise Devotion and Gratitude as the primary keys to unconditional love.

AHAM LOVE Retreat offers precious meditation methods and situations originating in the Tantra Kaula of the Heart of All and the Vigyan Bhairav Tantra (VBT). The practices explore the many facets of the Heart through relating, praying, singing, and body awareness practices. The retreat aims to support you in stepping out of the mind’s mechanical reactions to the Heart’s spontaneous response by uprooting yourself from conditionings that prevent the expression of love.

This profound journey supports transmuting the energy of lower emotions to vibrant emotions such as gratitude and, ultimately, unconditional love. The process offers you the opportunity to discover your capacity for love, silence, transparency, and clarity. It connects you to your blissful being, high-sensitive awareness, and a vibrant heart.

The main areas of exploration:
– Relating from unconditional love
– Stepping out of mechanical ways of relating
– Meditation practices from VBT and Kaula Heart of All
– Refining emotions
– Devotional Ritual
– Inner Medicine of Gratitude
– Yoga

For whom is this retreat?
This retreat is open to everyone who longs to dive deep into traditional Tantra practice and the longing for freedom, love, and consciousness. It is for beginners as well as long-time practitioners. Whatever your level, you will benefit from the process because meditation practices can only deepen the more you practice them. You can always approach meditation practices from every point: beginning, middle or end. Wherever you are, you grow within the practice!

Structure of the Retreat:
The retreat is structured with whole-day and night practices, starting at 7 a.m. and finishing around midnight. This intensive rhythm is alternated with breaks for meals and walking in nature.

Upcoming retreats

How can you go to the MATKA Centre?
How can you tap into its Healing Resources, Creating Power and Spiritual Purpose?
While it might sometimes appear to be an impossible task, it is an inherent quality of every woman to access the MATKA’s centre and channel its Life-giving Power to awaken the healing field known as the Inner Medicine. Every woman accesses this Medicine while in orgasm, lovemaking, menstruating, and giving birth. Still, she often misunderstands or misguides it due to some overwhelming repressed emotions, pain, stress, frustration or simply because she doesn’t know how to recognise it.

In this first module of the MATKA, you explore three precious methods to support you in accessing and channelling your Life-giving Power:

• Your Yoni Orgasmic Points
• Your Inner Medicine
• Your MATKA Map
  

Yoni Orgasmic Points: Through Yoni and breast self-massage, you learn how to map the pleasure points of your body and Yoni. By awakening and vitalising them, you open up to their orgasmic potential. In these essential practices, you learn to master your orgasmic flow for a better sexual life, but also to have full access to the creative power lying within.

Inner Medicine: Through specific Tantric methods, you learn how to awaken and root into your Inner Medicine. You learn to apply it to heal, vitalise, harmonise, and awaken the orgasmic capacity of your womb and body. While channelling its power to the heart, you learn to generate beautiful emotions such as gratitude and beauty. You access the power of awareness to support your spiritual and material evolution and to create healthy relationships with yourself, a partner, family, friends and ultimately with Life.

MATKA Map – Relations: The MATKA Map has directions, doors, and corners related to all your relations. How do you relate to your family and your friends? What energy do you engage, nourish or miss in those relationships? The practices you perform within the MATKA Map expose you to the energy patterns you develop in relationships. It is your personal weaving. You can make it harmonious or chaotic. During your practices with the MATKA Map, you can heal, restore, and strengthen actual or past relationships. This way, you transform how you relate to the world around you and within you. Engaging your whole body, heart, and spirit in the MATKA Map is a very intimate experience that penetrates the essence of your life. You get to the core of your Life-giving Power, the MATKA Deity, and learn how to share it authentically.

Your Inner Medicine, MATKA Map and Yoni Orgasmic Points are your best self-care!
Are you ready to activate them?
Join this journey and learn how!

The program of this module is for every woman who wishes to enhance her wisdom with more wisdom!
At whatever stage you are in your life, you are welcome to join this uplifting gathering of wise-wild women!

Pema’s sharing about women:

“…Women, for some reason, have become very lazy. They have given up! They no longer open into their wisdom because they have lost access to their own Medicine. And this has immense consequences for them and the world.  As the force of creation and the ones giving birth to forms, women no longer take care of what they create. As an example, women give birth to a boy and offer him guns to play with. They no longer question what the toys are about. They do not see that it supports violence. At the same time, the same women wonder why there are wars, rapes, and all kinds of abuse inflicted by men! Women have lost their connection to the Great Mother, to Harmony, and as a result, they have also lost the way to care for the whole, for the community, for their family, for their creation, and for themselves too… I also see that in this laziness, women have lost access not only to their wisdom but also to their own bodies, their orgasmic potential and their own Medicine. It is interesting to see that women don’t even know how to give birth by themselves. They have to rely on hospitals, on doctors, on medication, and so totally separated from their nature, from their deep mother instincts…

Women have immense resources of orgasmic energies that, once awakened, allow them to vibrate on a totally different level of intelligence. On this level, it is impossible for a woman to say to her boy: “Go play with a gun, go kill…”. On this level, she will say to her boy: “Be at the service of love, care for the whole…”. Once the woman is at her peak of energy and channels it in her body, heart and being, she reconnects with her wisdom, which aligns her with Life… Life with a big L. Not the conditioned life ruled by our society, but a Life ruled by the intelligence of love and consciousness…

I like to believe that it is not too late for women to wake up and make a drastic change in their lives and the life of the community; a change that offers all of us a life of harmony we are made to live, but that we seem to have forgotten…

I offer this retreat with a deep longing that women reunite their being with their Medicine, their wisdom of the Great Mother and the Great Mystery, their power to care for Creation…”

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What are you creating?
What is your Life Direction?
Is your orgasmic potential only sexual, or does it have another purpose?
Orgasm, besides its incredible pleasure, opens doors to a much more profound level. It allows women to enter a field of insight where points of view into reality are shown in their full brightness. The MATKA is the place of the Oracle, the One who sees in all directions, time and space. In orgasm, when women dare to sit on the throne of the MATKA Deity, they have the opportunity to unveil the secrets of creation, take new life directions and gain understandings about themselves.

In this MATKA module, women explore their physical MATKA and the MATKA Map in search of their life direction, their orgasmic power, their leading capacity and their insight into reality.

The methods you will learn to support you in this search:

• Yoni Massage
• Guiding a Man in Lovemaking
• Inner Medicine of Transmutation
• MATKA Map – Directions

Yoni Massage: Between women, we share a sisterhood space where we can support each other in many ways, one of which is the Yoni massage. In this MATKA module, you learn how to give this massage consisting of vitalising the Yoni to its ultimate orgasmic flow. In this intimate meeting, you and the one receiving the massage explore and learn all the ways of the Yoni, and there are many! The Yoni is a sacred place. Besides its orgasmic dimension, it is also a spiritual place where you enter the inner core of your being and encounter the power of creation. Giving and receiving this massage is an opportunity to dive into the female energy and unleash its qualities within yourself.

Guiding a Man in Lovemaking: One of the common mistakes is to think that men know a woman’s body. While some men do, most don’t. This results in a lot of misunderstanding, hesitation or forceful ways to relate to a woman’s body, especially on a sexual level. In this MATKA module, you learn what your body needs to be aroused and how to guide a man through those steps of arousal. You take responsibility for your pleasure and for the relationship between the man’s pleasure and yours. You learn this dynamic between women by shifting the polarity roles. This playful and deep exploration opens your potential of initiatress in lovemaking, making you a sexually mature woman.

Inner Medicine of Transmutation: In this MATKA module, you continue to unveil the Inner Medicine of the MATKA Deity. You open and apply the Inner Medicine to transmute emotions such as jealousy, attachment and anger, to name a few. At this level of the Inner Medicine, you learn how to become emotionally mature. You develop the capacity to be stable at the centre of stormy emotional weather! You learn to apply the Inner Medicine of Transmutation, which can transform struggle into peace, thus opening your life and your relation to the incredible power of Harmony.

MATKA Map – Directions: The understanding we explore at this level of the MATKA Map is your life direction. Where are you, and where do you go? What are you here for, and what do you want to create? Within the MATKA Map, you explore the potentials and qualities of the seven directions. You learn which direction you are walking in your life and what energy is needed to strengthen your steps. Positioning yourself at the MATKA Centre gives you a broader point of view of your life situation and direction. You can apply Inner Medicine to harmonise your current direction or redirect it to another one.

The program of this module is for every woman who wishes to enhance her wisdom with more wisdom!
At whatever stage you are in your life, you are welcome to join this uplifting gathering of wise-wild women!

Prerequisite: Participation in the MATKA Module 1 Retreat.

Upcoming retreats

Registration & Information:
contact@wildtantra.com

What is the Essence of Desire, of Pleasure?
Is it possible to use them as a stepping stone to Consciousness?
Or is it all a source of suffering?

Desire and pleasure are part of the journey of life.
They motivate our actions, decisions, and relationships.
We experience some momentary fulfillments from them and some frustrations too.
The frustrations lead to a greater desire for pleasurable moments. It goes on and on.
We are prisoners of this loop, which generates a great deal of suffering.

Is there a way out of the loop which doesn’t condemn pleasure and desire?

Tantra has developed methods that teach us to be desireless in our desires.
How is that possible?
Entering the emptiness of the Heart is the essential Step!

The Raja Lovers Retreat explores this step through a Ritual involving the embrace, the caresses, and the kisses between two lovers. All the intimate gestures of the lovers serve as a means to fuel their bodies with intense life energy. While channelling this energy to the Heart, we provoke a meeting beyond ego, personality, restricted beliefs, and dreams. A true meeting happens by blending refined physical sensations with high awareness, discipline, and devotion during the Ritual.

The preparation for the Ritual during the retreat invites the lovers to move out of mechanical sex, mind projections and expectations. It is a profound enquiry into the body’s rhythms, breath, mind and the emptiness of the Heart. The retreat supports lovers in awakening their energies and bodies to refined sensitivity and vitality, and to activate their potential for love and consciousness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Learning & practising the Raja Ritual
– Practising the Yoga of Creation
– Entering the Great Desire
– Centring in the emptiness of the Heart
– Reviving Wonder
– Opening to the forces of Creation

What does Pema say about the Ritual?
“There are a few aspects of lovemaking from the Raja Ritual. The first one consists of realising that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are a yoga of creation with specific patterns of energies. During the Ritual, you tap into these patterns to extract forces uplifting you into the Heart.
The second aspect concerns the biological aspect of the energy present during intercourse. If not used for creating a child, this aspect can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the energy patterns mentioned above with the biological element of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process that shifts intercourse into a new dimension.
Another aspect is desire, one of the powerful energies fueling the Raja Ritual. There is a profound understanding of desire: whatever we desire, we want to be one with it. It means desire is also a key to oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire to reach a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation, bringing about a state of wonder, freedom and peace beyond words…”

Important Information:
This retreat is devoted to lovemaking. However, it doesn’t mean you will move into intercourse in the group room. There is no sexual intercourse in the group room! All the intimate practices are held in your private bedroom with your lover.

Structure of the retreat:
The retreat is structured with whole-day and night practices. It starts at 7 am and finishes around midnight. This intensive rhythm alternates with breaks for meals, swimming, and walking in nature.

Upcoming retreats

Registration & Information: contact@wildtantra.com

What is the process about?
The retreat shares the Inner Medicine methods, focusing on healing and transforming patterns that slow down or pull down the ascension of your energy into a state of Clarity. The methods are anchored in the profound understanding of the essence of Memory, such as the natural equilibrium of order and chaos, which keeps your creativity at the service of the highest expression of life. The methods offer precious practices to support the recognition and removal of all obscuration. They restore your ability to connect your life’s purpose with the one of existence. They support you in generating healthy thoughts, emotions, and actions that foster your evolution towards becoming a mature human being.
The retreat is a mysterious, yet pragmatic way to activate the fibre of Memory in you, for you to walk your life in harmony with the whole.

Here are some of the main topics we explore during the retreat:

– Understanding of energy’s upward and downward spiral movements
– Ancestral, historical, biological Memory map
– Recognising inner obscuration
– Unlocking healing forces in us
– Calling out the Elements of Nature to revitalise our own forces
– Finding, activating the Inner Medicine
– Practising Inner Medicine methods
– Growing up from adolescent to mature adult
– The main negative emotions
– Defying gravity
– Taking responsibility for healing our inner obstacles
– Remembering the Ancestral Memory
– Grounding ourselves in our Inner Direction, Life Purpose
– The power of Prayer and right saying
– Ceremony of the 4 Altars
– The Mandala of the seven directions.
– The Centre of the Centre
– The navel protection and nourishment
– Digesting energies, emotions, memories…

What does Pema say about this retreat?

Upcoming retreats

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com