was successfully added to your cart.


RAJA Lovers Retreat 8-day

Map Unavailable

Date 28 Sep 2024 until 5 Oct 2024

Start on first day at 14:30

Finish on last day at 11:00

Soul Valley
Sinnai, Cagliari

Country Italy

What is the Essence of Desire, of Pleasure?
Is it possible to use them as a stepping stone to Consciousness?
Or is all a source of suffering?

Desire and pleasure are part of the journey of life.
They motivate our actions, decisions, and relationships.
We get some momentary fulfilments from them and some frustrations too!
The frustrations lead to more desire for pleasurable moments. It goes on and on. We are prisoners of this loop, and this generates a lot of suffering.

Is there a way out of the loop which doesn’t condemn pleasure and desire?

Tantra has developed methods teaching us to be desireless in desire.
How is that possible?
Entering the emptiness of the Heart is the essential Step!

The Raja Lovers Retreat explores this step through a Ritual involving the embrace, the caresses, and the kisses between two lovers. All the intimate gestures of the lovers are a means to fuse the body with intense life energy. While channelling this energy to the Heart, we provoke a meeting beyond ego, personality, restricted beliefs, and dreams. A true meeting happens by blending refined physical sensations with high awareness, discipline, and devotion during the Ritual.

The preparation for the Ritual during the retreat invites the lovers to move out of mechanical sex and mind projections and expectations. It is a profound enquiry into the body’s rhythms, breath, mind and the emptiness of the Heart. The retreat supports lovers in awakening their energies and bodies to refined sensitivity and vitality, and to activate their potential for love and consciousness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Learning & practising the Raja Ritual
– Practicing the Yoga of Creation
– Entering the Great Desire
– Centering in the emptiness of the Heart
– Reviving Wonder
– Opening to the forces of Creation

What does Pema say about the Ritual?
“There are a few aspects of lovemaking from the Raja Ritual. The first one consists of realising that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are a yoga of creation with specific patterns of energies. During the Ritual, you tap into these patterns to extract forces uplifting you into the Heart.
The second aspect concerns the biological aspect of the energy present during intercourse. If not used for creating a child, this aspect can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the energy patterns mentioned above with the biological element of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process that shifts intercourse into a new dimension.
Another aspect is about Desire, one of the powerful energies fuelling the Raja Ritual. There is a deep understanding of desire: whatever we desire, we want to be one with. It means desire is also a key to oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire to come to a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation, bringing about a state of wonder, freedom and peace beyond words…”

Important Information: Do you have to move into intercourse in the group room?
This retreat is devoted to lovemaking. However, it doesn’t mean you will move into intercourse in the group room. This is very important for you to understand. There is no sexual intercourse in the group room! All the intimate practices are held in your private bedroom with your lover.

Structure of the retreat:
The retreat is structured with whole day and night practices. It starts at 7 am and finishes around midnight. This intensive rhythm alternates with breaks for meals, swimming, and walking in nature.

Price: € 1950
Price is per person, including VAT.

It includes:
– Lodging in a double bedroom with a private bathroom
– Sauna
– Jacuzzi
– Swimming pool
– 3 vegan meals per day
– 40 hectares of wild nature!
– Silence!

Soul Valley Hotel & Retreats
09048 Sinnai, Ville métropolitaine de Cagliari, Italy

Registration and Information: