I could write a whole book about it, but one chapter of my next book can be enough to offer you some answers about this delicate hot subject in Tantra!
Here some explanations extracted from my book: Tantra, The Hidden Mysteries which will be launched April 2017.
“Listen carefully, my dear lovers. The Great Desire pushes the man and the woman to come closer, to melt, to become one, and yet at the same time it divides them. Look closely at the moment of creation, when the sperm meets the ovule; what is really happening? They do not become one, they divide into two and then four and six and finally into millions of cells which will become one body. We see one body, but we forget that it was created by division, not oneness. There was a momentary union when the sperm and the ovule met, but immediately after this union, division started. What a strange play! The man and woman’s desire for closeness, for togetherness, for disappearing into each other, for melting into one another, for ultimate union, for becoming one has become three! Existence uses some very strange mathematics where one plus one equals three! In our rational view it equals two. And in our spiritual quest it equals one. So who is deceiving whom?…”
Here are some understandings…