WildTantra Path of Awakening for singles & lovers

is equally open for singles and lovers. It is set up as a 2-year process in which each retreat builds upon the previous one. For the second year retreats, participation in the first year retreats is required, as it will ease your process. For upgrading your life to a high level of love and consciousness, we invite you to jump into the whole process as it deepens your transformation with every step.

Program Overview & Prices 2019*

First Year
Orgasmic Body 4 – 7 April:  720 €
Female/Male Orgasms 5 – 9 June: 920 €
Kundalini Awakening 12 – 15 Sept: 750 €
Lovemaking Ritual 28 Nov – 1 Dec: 750 €
Reduction price full first year training: 2900 €

Second Year
Initiation Space 11 – 14 April: 750 €
Silent Orgasm 13 – 16 June: 750 €
Re-Alignment 18 – 22 Sept: 920 €
Darkness Retreat 4 Dec – 8 Dec: 920 €
Reduction price full second year training 3050 €

WildTantra Introduction – for singles & lovers
WildTantra Intro 20 and 25 Nov: 90 €

Registration & Information

For WildTantra Path of Awakening
Amrapali +31 (0)6 28 07 16 96
info@wildtantra.com

For Introduction day
Amrapali +31 (0)6 28 07 16 96
introday@wildtantra.com

*Prices are per person and  include lodging & vegan meals. These prices are for our retreats in The Netherlands and not for Russia.

What do you mean by Lovers?
By lovers we mean a man and a woman who love each other. It doesn’t mean you are living together or that you are married. It simply means that you are committed to grow in love together. You are very much welcomed to follow the whole training with your lover, wife, husband, meditation partner… We will support you to open up your relationship, marriage to a new dimension of relating and expansion into love and consciousness…

What do you mean Meditation Partner?
A Meditation Partner is someone with whom you are involved in a process of meditation, which might or might not involve lovemaking. It is a partner you are not specifically living together with or engaged with in relationship. You may meet only at specific moments for meditation.

What are the Advanced retreats?
It means the intensity of the process shared in these retreats requires that you have experience with tantric meditation and that preferably you have followed the first year of WildTantra Path of Awakening. In this retreat, you need to easily contain and circulate your energy and be able to watch your mind and emotions without it creating tension in you.

I am homosexual, can I participate in your retreats?
Yes, you are warmly welcome under the condition you are willing to practice some meditations with the gender opposite of you.

I am pregnant, can I participate in your retreats?
The retreats we offer demands a lot on a body and emotional level. We feel a pregnant woman is not for this type of “shaking up”.. The system of a pregnant woman is very precious and a 9 month tantric retreat in itself! We can recommend you some meditations and offer you some guidance about it, but we prefer not to welcome you in our retreats. You’re much welcome to join us a few months after giving birth.

I am under medication or have some health issues or some psychological issues,
can I participate in your retreats?
Your physical and psychological conditions should be good and healthy in order to follow our training. If you take medication, we need to know what it is and for what. Depending the type of medication, we might refuse you in our retreat because we have observed that our intensive energy works are not compatible with some medications. Before being fully accepted in our retreat, we ask you to fill out a registration form with questions about your physical and psychological health. If we judge your conditions will not match with the work we offer in our retreats we will not take you in. We will give you some suggestions of what you can do as a preparation to our retreats or redirect you to some different type of work more suitable to your condition.

Are some preparations needed prior attending the retreats?
During the retreats from the Path of Awakening you are put on a vegan diet without sugar and coffee. This might be creating a detox process in your body during the retreat. To avoid it becoming too intense for your body, we recommend you to prepare for it a few days before the start of the retreat.

This day is meant for people who wish to join the WildTantra year training “Path of Awakening” or are simply interested to get to know us before deciding to join. It offers you the opportunity to experience some of our methods and feel if this Path is for you. It is as much for you to get to know us than for us to get to know you as we want to be able to inform you that you are “fit” to enroll for our intensive retreats.

Here are some topics we explore:

– Understanding the WildTantra approach.
– Experience some of our methods.
– Get to know us and us to know you.
– Get the approval from Pema to join the year training

Upcoming introduction days

WildTantra Introduction 1-day
25 November 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

WildTantra Introduction 1-day
26 November 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Information: introday@wildtantra.com

Registration: please fill out this online form

This retreat guides you into rediscovering your potential of living life fully from the body, bypassing the protection mechanism of the mind that builds up bodily tension and a lack of love, as well as a sense of separation. The process restores your direct connection with life by awakening and exploring the life forces and the sexual flow in the body. It disarms the pelvis and sex from tensions and breaks breathing patterns with the aim to return to a natural breathing that bridges the body sensations with the heart. This process returns the spontaneity, vitality, and sensuality to the life energy and it restores the body’s ability for pleasure and sacred touch.

During the retreat we give you the space, situations and methods to trust your body-heart connection to unite with ‘God’ – with deep pleasure and sensuality without the restrictive belief that love is pure and the body not. We offer you a ‘bed’ where love and the body can unit freely, blissfully, in order for you to come back into your pure state of sensual innocence.

The main areas of exploration:
– Unfolding your natural orgasmic body state
– Letting go of fear restricting deep pleasure
– Reviving the Sacred within
– Opening to orgasmic breathing
– Understanding mind-heart-body function
– Opening up your life to nourishing bodily relationships with yourself and others

What Pema Gitama shares about this retreat:
“We tend to live interpreting life from the mind. In this way we bypass the direct experience of life in the body. We don’t know anymore what an apple tastes like or what a kiss tastes like, because the experience is first lived in the mind. There our experiences are tainted with judgment: Good or bad, like and dislike, but never with wonder, unity. The ego is very much nourished; strengthen by this mind game while the body and the heart slowly die from desolation, abandon. It has a tremendous impact on how we relate with our body and the bodies of others. It creates a sense of separation that crystalizes into tension, numbness, and excitement too while it covers the heart with emotions such as anger, frustration, depression… In the long run, diseases of all kind appear without us understanding why.

The separation we suffer from leads us to make choices and decisions about our life, our relationships, and our work, which are totally out of touch with life, existence, love and consciousness. To come back to unity, to the marriage with existence within us, the body has to be explored as a temple by using the senses, the breath and sex as a doorway to the divine within and without. It allows the body to become a vehicle for the heart and no longer the slave of the mind. By linking ourselves to the heart and body, we can manifest love and creativity, transforming negativity, destructive behaviour that impede a re-union with life.
In the process we awaken the desire force, pleasure, and orgasm from the deep understanding that these are instruments of unity and not of separation. When these bodily instruments of oneness are awoken lovingly, consciously, they create a sacred inner ‘music’ -a harmony and bliss within us that allows us to embody a deep reverence for life. Making love, eating, dancing, resting, working… no matter which activity we perform, it then becomes a prayer uniting us with the depths of life…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 1 - Orgasmic Body 4-day
04 April 2019 - 07 April 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

The process unfolds and offers understanding on the dynamic of sex, of man and woman relations by exploring the depth of orgasms as a source of energy which do not belong to female or male, but more to our capacity of giving/receiving and our quality of taping into bliss. To come to this point, we take time to heal our genitals, our emotional body from all kinds of misguiding, trauma, believes, social and religious conditionings. We give you tools to regain the full function of your sex in order to use it for a deeper fulfilling sexual encounter, but most of all to use it as an instrument for encountering the divine within you. In this way, we gain trust in letting go into deep pleasure and surrendering into something bigger than ourselves. We develop a supportive, loving and sacred environment where everyone can feel safe to open up to the intimate play of orgasm in the body.

Within this retreat women and men are separated for 3 days before coming back together for specific practices. It allows them to explore different issues, topics, qualities belonging to the uniqueness of their gender.

The main areas of exploration for this retreat:
– Stepping out of immature female and male attitudes
– Connecting to nurturing feminine and male forces
– Learning about male and female sexual energy and body
– Regaining your full capacity for orgasm if you lost it or if you can’t find it.
– Expanding the orgasm you already have to deeper fulfilments.
– Healing your genital from past trauma, misused, misunderstanding.
– Letting go of destructive associations with sex.
– Lifting up the ego centred relation between man and woman to a relation at the service of love and consciousness.
– Destroying within you the social conditions of what it is to be a man and a woman.

What Pema Gitama shares about this retreat:
“Even though we yearn for orgasm, we are afraid of it at the same time. We carry a dilemma brought about by education, and social or religious conditioning: ‘Sex is dirty, bad, wrong, evil… It is God´s gift, but only to make children… If you enjoy sex you are a whore…’ You might think at first that you aren’t affected by these kind of beliefs, but they are playing in the background and constantly limiting your bliss. Sex and the Divine have been taboo for millennia. This has become a disease in humanity. We need healing, love and understanding to restore the natural possibility of rejoicing with the divine through sex. While diving into this healing dimension another aspect is naturally brought into the light: our identity as man and woman which is based on social rules and conditioning. Being a man is not about being strong, powerful, competitive, dominant, and being a woman is not about being fragile, emotional, needy, manipulative. The identification to these clichés are creating very immature men and women, whom thus relate with each other on the level of wanting, needing, domination, submission… Tantra proposes a totally different approach of relating, which is based on sharing and support. It generates a new quality of men and women who love, respect deeply and support the awakening of each other. In this retreat, we like to give birth to such men and woman!…

What is orgasm?
While orgasm is triggered in the body it opens a space beyond the body, linked to the heart and consciousness. The energy of orgasm first rushes in the body, flooding our senses with pleasure. Then it opens a door to the beyond. This happens in a split second, a small moment that we miss most of the time, because of a lack of awareness. This moment is very precious. It shows us where we come from. It is a moment ‘back home’ in which everything is aligned within us: sex, heart and consciousness. If we catch hold of it, it is the greatest orgasm existence can offer us…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 2 - Female/Male Orgasm 5-day
05 June 2019 - 09 June 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

The retreat is devoted to root you into bliss by activating, harmonizing the kundalini energy within you. It refines your sensitivity from pleasure sensations to blissful state by expanding the sexual flow through your whole body and by letting go into energetic orgasm. The consequences of the bliss, kundalini opening in you are not only sexually rewarding, they are life changing as they centre you into a space of non-duality where your encounters with others and life can become a source to the experience of oneness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Awakening Kundalini flow
– Circulating and containing sexual energy
– Opening to energetic orgasms
– Supporting positive qualities
– Surrendering to the Goddess force
– Shifting to the non-dual dimension
– Connecting sexual energy in various channels in your body
– Transmuting pleasure into bliss
– Letting go of addiction to sex and whatever pulls out of bliss
– Understanding and dropping addiction

What is Kundalini?
Tantra has discovered a pathway in the body, which is mainly connected to the spine and which is called Kunda. When the life force flows through it, it is named Kundalini. This precious path way unites us between earth and sky, matter and spirit, body and no-body. When the Kundalini stays at the level of the sexual organs and sexual activity, it carries a certain vibration. The more it is elevated in the Kunda channel, the more our inner vibration changes. The happy vibration of sex becomes a vibration of joy in the heart. When it moves up to the crown, the vibration is of bliss. Then sex feels like a divine experience. Sex, love, consciousness are integrated in the same action. This is a very powerful process that transforms our way of life totally. Once you taste the joy of love embracing the body, life takes a different direction…
However, Kundalini flow does not only create new sexual experiences. It embraces much more than that. It activates our capacity for unity with everything in life. Kundalini supports us in being in this embrace all the time, not just during sexual intercourse. It shifts the experience of unity to everything around – the trees, flowers, the moon, the sky full of stars…
At the same time it creates a lot of changes on the body level. The vibration of our cells, brain, organs, and blood flow is activated to a new level of light. It nourishes and rejuvenates our entire organism since it awakens the capacity of our body to live life fully!

What are the expressions and qualities of Kundalini?
Kundalini carries the quality of unity. In expression it can be very silent, motionless, as much as very expressive. It will all depend on what the Kundalini encounters on its way through you! If there is fear, you can be sure that fear will be actively expressed. If there is happiness, it will come shining through equally. It is important to understand that Kundalini is exposing everything hidden inside us, fear as much as joy. Since Kundalini is a non-dual energy that always looks for uniting. If there is something in the way of unity, it will be exposed so that it can be dropped or transformed. This is the powerful beauty of Kundalini: It is a healing, transformative force, which awakens us to unity. It calls us back to our state of oneness.

What Pema Gitama says about this retreat?
“There is a simple fact that we live at the minimum of our capacity of bliss. We live in pleasure, which is already beautiful, but not blissful. With our thirst for pleasure we create addiction to what awakens the pleasure. Addiction to food, to drink, to emotion, to sex… We are somehow totally sick, but we call this our normal state. This state is also very much promoted in our society, which considers it as normal, social, familial, civilized, while actually it maintains us in a dimension of tension, fear, need, violence, domination, manipulation and most of all addiction. We have become slaves of pleasurable tensions. We run after ice cream, French fries, good wine, good joints, good sex… but then what? Are you satisfied? Does it elevate you into silence, into harmony, into unity?… No. The answer is no, if you are honest of course.
So what goes wrong in that story, because in fact there is nothing wrong with pleasure. It is definitely important to move in it… But how do we move in it? This is the art, the key Tantra can offer us and this is what we explore within this retreat!”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 3 - Kundalini Awakening 4-day
12 September 2019 - 15 September 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

In this retreat you are invited to refine lovemaking to the Arya Tantra, which unites the force of desire to the devotional alchemy of the heart by worshipping the sexual energy as doorway to the inner secrets of creation. The process creates a drastic change of your sexual life by shifting you from ego-centered sexuality into conscious, blissful, nourishing sexuality where intimate meeting becomes a source of awakening and a source of the creating force.

The main areas of exploration:
– Refining intercourse to the Arya Tantra
– Opening to the Arya Yoga of Creation
– Entering the Great Desire
– Building up Clear Intention in lovemaking
– Awakening the qualities of devotion/worship
– Stabilizing yourself into bliss
– Being in touch with the Divine creation within you
– Trust in your capacity to embrace and create a life supporting you

Important Information: Do you have to move into penetration during the retreat?
This retreat is devoted to lovemaking, which doesn’t mean you will have to move into penetration. This is very important for you to understand this. You stay totally free with this! We share with you an amazing method of lovemaking. While learning the method you are free to move in penetration or not. You will not be pushed into it! Whatever is your choice we can guarantee the total benefit of the method.

What Pema Gitama says about this retreat?
“There are a few aspects in the way of lovemaking from the Arya Tantra.
The first one consists in realizing that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are creating patterns of energy within us and our partner. During the Ritual you use these patterns of energy with a clear intention of love in order to uplift your lovemaking into a high frequency of bliss.
The second aspect is about the biological aspect of the energy we generate during intercourse. This energy if not used for the creation of a child, can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the patterns of energy mentioned above with the biological force of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process shifting love intercourse into a totally new dimension where every union with a partner actualizes the potential of Divine forces of creation within the body, the heart and the sexual energy.
One more aspect is about Desire which is one of the powerful energy fuelling the Arya Yoga of Creation. There is a deep understanding about desire, which is whatever we desire we want to be one with. It means desire is also a key for oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire totally, as to come to a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation bringing about blissful experiences beyond words.”

Arya Wisdom of the Yoga of Creation:
“My dear lovers, I did mention to you that many things can be created out of the Yoga of Creation- recipe. Actually everything is created out of it. Created and also de-created or better to say transformed. What is happening within your body when you move into the Yoga of Creation is the same happening in this big universe around us. The play of creation in the universe is the same as in your body. You do not need to go looking at the stars to figure out how they have been born. Go looking down into your body and you will know because they are unfolding there too. In your body, you can see the whole creation of existence. Stars, plants, animals… all are born in your body and you are also born in all of them. The play of creation is the same for everyone and everything, even though forms coming out of it differ. If you are stuck looking at the forms, you might think that creation is different for every thing and for everyone, but it is not. It all comes out of the same Yoga, of the same dance, of the same force of desire. The Great Desire is the chef cook in this big kitchen of the universe! In the Yoga of Creation you need to rely on the Great Desire. It is the force moving your body towards each other. It is the force fuelling your energy and giving the spark for its actions. Now, consciously or unconsciously you can participate in it. And it is consciously you need to move into it in order for its hidden mystery to be revealed to you. Unconsciously you will only see the by-product of creation, such as the fruits on the trees, the blossoming flowers on the plants, the baby from the womb of the woman, but you will not be taken by its Beauty, its Truth…” Extract from the book Tantra, The Hidden Mysteries from Pema Gitama

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 4 - Arya Ritual 4-day
28 November 2019 - 01 December 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

This retreat guides you into the Initiation Space of the Noor Ritual during which the power of sacred sounds, words, symbols, and plants supports you into resolving the inner illusion of death, of everything that separates you from encountering life directly. It puts you face to face with your lies as much as with your truth. It awakens the one in you who sees through everything that blinds you and who can take clear decisions on how to manifest your life purpose.

The main areas of exploration:
– Dissolving inner illusions
– Activating third eye potential
– Activating healing forces
– Noor Ritual
– Power of sacred sounds, words and plants
– Protecting your own energy field from negative input

What Pema Gitama says about this retreat?
“In our inner growth process we all face at some point limitations, resistances making us feel totally stuck and no matter what you do to pass through it, it seems like nothing works. There is a subtle mechanism in us, which hides our most essential inner blockages.  Tantra is very concerned by this inner situation and it has created many methods taping in our resource of healing, of intuitive clarity for us to see, to understand and to remove our blockages which most of the time are impure resolved past situations. The methods use sacred sounds, words, plants in order to reconnect us with “the One that sees” and that heals too. Might it be a force within us or outside of us, the methods named often by misunderstanding magical or even black magic do bring about in us purity and deep transformation. It clears us up from illusions and detaches us from restrictive karmic links. It is very enriching to learn those mysterious methods because they open a dimension in us that makes us free from our own negativity, which is to me the only source of duality we carry and do not want to face clearly. We most of the time project it outside of us on people or situations. Moving in the esoteric tantric world, you learn to see very sharply what you do with your energy, how tricky you can be and how deeply you believe in negative patterns that only suck your life down to misery. The esoteric world in Tantra is not about creating all kind of superficial magic, it is about creating the real magic: waking up to reality by purifying the One that sees the full picture of existence. It is about the removal of all the dust of illusions in front of your eyes, of your heart in order to meet existence in its full splendor… I recommend every tantrica on the path to unleash the inner esoteric power in them if they really want to heal, to clean, to see, to really SEE!…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 5 - Initiation Space 4-day
11 April 2019 - 14 April 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

This process is a dive into the center of emptiness, the zero point where nothing moves, where forms have not taken shape, where thoughts are not yet born: The Silent Orgasm. It invites you to redirect the life energy of your everyday actions into strengthening the watcher in you and to vitalize your ability to pull yourself into the realm of consciousness where you live awakened instead of being a sleep-walking victim of your own unconscious patterns. The impact of such redirection of your energy uplifts you on a bodily level to timeless orgasm rooted into bliss which you can expand into all actions of your life.

The main areas of exploration:
– Awakening the Inner Circle
– Surrender sex to love and consciousness
– Letting go of the sense of separation
– Transmuting sexual energy to sensual awakening
– Expanding to silent communion
– Resting into Silent Orgasm
– Taping into consciousness

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 6 - Silent Orgasm 4-day
13 June 2019 - 16 June 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Through worship, sacred rituals, devotion and prayer this retreat unveils the space where you are directly connected with the resource of consciousness, of creative forces within you and also within to what Tantra refers to as the Mother field. The whole process anchors you into taking responsibility to collaborate with these resources thus; enhancing your life and the lives of others with great harmony and abundance. To support your realignment to this space, every day Pema offers everyone the opportunity of a cut through your strategies sabotaging your awakening by responding personally to your questioning, sharing.

The main areas of exploration:
– Connecting to divine inner/outer resources (Mother Field)
– Stepping out of projection, dream, ego
– Finding the Master inside
– Centering into Wisdom
– Lotus Ritual

Question and answer during one retreat in July 2011:
I am starting to lose a sense of everything. I am wondering if I still have to look for sense in the world around me?

“…This whole existence doesn’t make sense as long as you don’t surrender to love. You can try to make sense of this or that. You can try to make sense of why you are here. It might satisfy you for some time, but very soon you will realize it doesn’t make sense. It is perfect where you are. You have tried looking here, looking there and it doesn’t make sense. This is good. It is very good! Just go on. Keep on looking. Keep on trying to make sense of your whole existence. And one day, you will have only one possibility left: you fall on the floor totally exhausted, but so happy! So tremendously happy! Love is embracing you. You are embracing love. There is nowhere to go. There is no sense to make out of this existence. You simply know. You can’t explain it. You can’t speak about it, but you know. This is the moment when you surrender to love…” Pema Gitama

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 7 - Re-Alignment 5-day
18 September 2019 - 22 September 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

During this retreat we activate the pineal gland known as the third eye. Through specific methods derived from Tantra and Shamanic work, the gland opens its mystic qualities – supporting us to see beyond the dualistic and rational nature of the mind. The One Eye View gives us the capacity to perceive inner and outer reality from a high consciousness. As we mostly perceive life from a low point of view conditioned by social ideas and concepts, the third eye view is like an eagle flying high in the sky of consciousness. It looks at reality from a high point of view, allowing us to see other areas of reality which are normally not available to our senses. The whole process uplifts you to understanding who you are, what life is about, what are your qualities of creation and to center yourself into consciousness.

The main areas of exploration:
– Activating the Third Eye
– Detoxifying the Pineal Gland
– Exploring the brain waves activities (From Beta to Delta)
– Tuning to higher frequencies of consciousness and creativity
– Entering the realm of clarity, intuition
– Reclaiming your freedom
– Inner Diamond Ceremony

What Pema shares about this retreat:

“The pineal gland is an endocrine gland responsible of the production of melatonin, serotonin and neuron transmitters which influences sexual development and sleep-wake cycles. It is also known for being the producer of DMT which triggers alternated state of consciousness. While the physiological function of the pineal gland has been unknown until recent times, mystical traditions and esoteric schools have long known this area in the middle of the brain to be the connecting link between the physical and spiritual worlds. Known as the Third Eye, the Seat of the Soul, this mysterious treasure is considered to be the gateway that leads within to inner realms and spaces of higher consciousness. It plays an important role into our psychological being but most of all it has a crucial role to unlock our perception of reality, to connect directly to consciousness, truth. It is interesting to notice that we live in a society that does everything to shut down the capacity of the pineal gland by putting Fluor in our drinking water, too much sweeteners in our food. By locking down the third eye to higher consciousness we can have a society of slaves functioning at a minimum level of consciousness in kind of sleep walking state where everyone can be controlled. It makes us live far below our capacity of awakening, of love, of clarity, of intelligence. The awakening of the third eye is not just a nice mystical experience, it is most of all a way to reclaim our full capacity to live our life as an awakened being instead of a conditioned robot. In short the third eye activation is about reclaiming our freedom!”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 8 - Third Eye Retreat 5-day
04 December 2019 - 08 December 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Entering the state of dissolution where the veil of illusion is uncovered to reveal the original source where you come from. This retreat is set up totally in darkness where specific meditations are practiced to build up energy towards the third eye to bring about a shift of consciousness. The sensory deprivation of light for a few days drastically accelerates  your inner evolution towards Awakening. It opens access to wisdom, insights, offering you answers and resources for drastic life changes.

The main areas of exploration:

– Burning the identification to the ego, mind, illusion…
– Tuning into truth
– Opening the third eye dimension
– Shift of consciousness
– Transforming old unresolved karma
– Facing the fear of death
– Entering dimension beyond time and space
– Speeding up your awakening

What Pema Gitama shares about this retreat:
“Darkness retreats have been used throughout centuries in various Tantra traditions. At the time where the Kaula of the Heart of All was implanted in India, there were caves specially established for a long time stay in the dark. The disciple would stay for a few days to few weeks deprived of light. It was considered a high level practice. Sitting in a dark room, staring at darkness provokes the pineal gland to work much stronger and clearer, which enables the third eye to be in its full capacity.
Research has shown that in prolonged darkness a biochemical reaction in the brain is causing extraordinary molecules like DMT to be synthesized. It triggers altered states of perception contributing to an accelerated evolution towards enlightenment…

And here for you one powerful wisdom quote from Osho which might encourage you to jump into the challenge of this retreat: “If you can love darkness, you will become unafraid of death. If you can enter into darkness – and you can enter when there is no fear – you will achieve total relaxation. If you can become one with darkness, you are dissolved, it is a surrender. Now there is no fear, because if you have become one with darkness, you have become one with death. You cannot die now, you have become deathless. Darkness is deathless. Light is born and dies. Darkness simply is. It is deathless…”  

Important Information:
A medical attestation of physical and psychological good health needs to be provided at registration. It is recommended ten days prior the retreat to practice silent sitting for an hour every day and to change your diet to vegetarian, without coffee, sugar, alcohol, cigarettes and any kind of drug substances. After the retreat, it is helpful that you have a few days off work in order to “land” back to your daily life style.

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

This event supports the tantric flame of tantricas who have been following courses from WildTantra. The meeting builds on meditations that are taught in the workshops. It gives you the opportunity to practice them again with trained tantricas. Every meeting develops different meditations around a specific theme.
The day also is a beautiful moment of celebration with friends who share the same path as you. It flows from a cup of tea to meditations, diner, celebration… to support the expansion of your consciousness and your heart in a playful and loving surrounding.

Here are some topics we explore:

• – Practice of meditations
• – Sharing your experiences
• – Meeting other Tantricas
• – Celebration with Mantra singing

Upcoming meetings

WildTantra Meeting 1-day
24 March 2019, The BodhiTree, Soest

WildTantra Meeting 1-day
28 April 2019, The BodhiTree, Soest

WildTantra Meeting 1-day
26 May 2019, The BodhiTree, Soest

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

When a woman reconnects with the Flame of Creation within her womb and allows it to brighten body, heart and spirit she accesses “the vertical dimension’.  This pathway supports her to channel the energy of her Medicine at the service of first her own Healing and then of her Awakening. Orgasm is for most women a first glimpse of her own Medicine, but often misunderstood or misguiding due to the overwhelming pleasure it produces.
How to stay in tune with the energy at the centre of orgasm instead of being lost into its sensations and yet still enjoying the pleasure of it!?
How to connect this energy to all the Stars shining in the Medicine Sky?
While it might appear to be an impossible task, it is actually an inherent quality of every woman to use her pleasure, her orgasm to find her own Medicine. She just needs to revive the power of prayer, of gratitude, of creation, of intuition, of beauty and to learn how to move into the Sacred Medicine Sky.  In this way, her orgasm is not only meant to create pleasure but offers a great source of empowerment, manifestation and clear insights. She can than re-establish the Medicine of Truth from where she gives birth to words, forms and actions at the service of Creation and of her own Awakening and the one of others.

This retreat is a ‘renaissance’ of the Medicine Sky using the female capacity to induce pleasure and orgasm; as much physical as energetic. We explore all the forces of orgasm and there are many; let it be the one coming from the genitals or the one opening the heart while singing, or the one blossoming in silence while observing a flower!

The Medicine Sky has many Stars mapped in the physical and energetic body; same as in the Outer Sky. The alignment to those inner and outer Stars opens the full potential of pleasure offering a healthy energy and a body rooted in the Forces and the Memory of Nature. It also provides a field of Intuitive Wisdom where the heart of a woman is at service of Creation for it to manifest Beauty, Harmony and everything that benefits spiritual evolution.

This retreat is based on the Tantra Kaula Heart of All, the Jaguar Mother Drum and the Hummingbird Medicine. It offers many Sacred Viewpoints from where women can look at themselves in new and ancient ways, and thus refreshing, regenerating, empowering their body, heart and spirit with Truth.

 The main areas of exploration:
– The Jaguar Mother Drum
– The Ancestors
– The Medicine of Truth
– The Medicine Sky
– Creating Clear Intention & Direction
– Horizontal & Vertical Dimension
– Power of Prayer and Devotion
– Power of Manifestation
– Connection with the Great Mother

– Orgasm Forces
– Star Orgasm Massage
– Breast and Sex Re-connection
– Freeing the genitals from physical and emotional tension as well as misconception
– Womb Yoga with Yoni Egg
– Receiving and Giving Energy
– Guiding a Man into Lovemaking

Pema’s sharing about women:
“…Women for some reason have become very lazy. They have given up! They do not open anymore into their wisdom because they have lost the access to their own Medicine. And this has immense consequences for the world.  Being the force of creation, being the ones giving birth to forms, women nevertheless do not take care anymore of what they create. As an example, women give birth to a boy and offer them guns for him to play with. They do not question anymore what the toys are about. They do not see that it supports violence. At the same time, the same women wonder why there are wars, rapes, all kind of abuse inflicted by men! Women have gone totally out of their connection to the Great Mother, to Harmony, so they have lost also the way to care for the whole, for the community, for their family, for their creation and for themselves too… I also see that in this laziness women have lost access not only to their wisdom but also to their own body, to their orgasmic potential and their own Medicine. It is interesting to see that women don’t even know how to give birth by themselves. They have to rely on hospitals, on doctors, on medication; and so totally separated from their nature, from their deep mother instincts…

Women have immense resources of orgasmic energies that, once awakened, allow them to vibrate on a totally different level of intelligence. On this level it is impossible for a woman to say to her boy: “go play with a gun, go kill…”. On this level, she will say to her boy: “be at the service of love, care for the whole…”. Once the woman is at her peak of energy and channels it in her body, heart and being, she reconnects with her wisdom which aligns her with Life… Life with a big L. Not the little stupid life ruled by our society, but a Life ruled by the intelligence of love and consciousness…

I like to believe that it is not too late for women to wake up and make a drastic change in their lives and the life of the community; a change that offers to all of us a life of harmony we are made to live but that we seem to have forgotten…

I offer this retreat with a deep longing that women reunite their being with their Medicine of Truth, with the wisdom of the Great Mother and the Great Mystery, with the power of Beauty, of Creation and the power to care for Creation…”

Upcoming retreats

Star Awakening - The Jaguar Mother Drum 2-day
20 April 2019 - 21 April 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com

Within this retreat women and men are separated for 3 days before coming back together for specific practices. It allows them to explore different issues, topics, qualities belonging to the uniqueness of their gender.

The process unfolds and offers understanding on the dynamic of sex by exploring the depth of orgasms in the male and female bodies. The process is revealing the healing power of orgasm and its spiritual dimension of unity. During the retreat we give you tools to regain the association of sex and the divine inside of you. We explore how the heart has a major role in opening the sexual energy flow and how orgasm can be a divine expression of love.

3 days between men:
– Healing the genital
– Awakening deep orgasms
– Building up orgasmic energy in the whole body
– Containing ejaculation without tension
– Stepping out of immature male attitudes
– Learning about female sexual energy and body
– Worshipping feminine power
– Surrender to the female qualities within the man

During the retreat, we take time to gently open the body, the senses, and the sex centre to the flow of energy rising at the moment of orgasm. In this way, we gain trust in letting go into deep pleasure and surrendering into something bigger than ourselves. We develop a supportive, loving and sacred environment where everyone can feel safe to open up to the intimate play of orgasm in the body.

The main areas of exploration for this retreat:
– Regaining your full capacity for orgasm if you lost it or if you can’t find it.
– Expanding the orgasm you already have to deeper fulfillment.
– Healing your genital from past trauma, misused, misunderstanding.
– Connecting sexual energy in various channels in your body.
– Letting go of destructive associations with sex.
– Moving from pleasure to bliss.
– Lifting up the ego centred relation between man and woman to a relation at the service of love and consciousness.
– Destroying within you the social conditions of what it is to be a man and a woman.

What Pema Gitama shares about this retreat:
“Even though we yearn for orgasm, we are afraid of it at the same time. We carry a dilemma brought about by education, and social or religious conditioning: ‘Sex is dirty, bad, wrong, evil… It is God´s gift, but only to make children… If you enjoy sex you are a whore…’ You might think at first that you aren’t affected by these kind of beliefs, but they are playing in the background and constantly limiting your bliss. Sex and the Divine have been taboo for millennia. This has become a disease in humanity. We need healing, love and understanding to restore the natural possibility of rejoicing with the divine through sex. While diving into this healing dimension another aspect is naturally brought into the light: our identity as man and woman which is based on social rules and conditioning. Being a man is not about being strong, powerful, competitive, dominant, and being a woman is not about being fragile, emotional, needy, manipulative. The identification to these clichés are creating very immature men and women, whom thus relate with each other on the level of wanting, needing, domination, submission… Tantra proposes a totally different approach of relating, which is based on sharing and support. It generates a new quality of men and women who love, respect deeply and support the awakening of each other. In this retreat, we like to give birth to such men and woman!…

What is orgasm?
While orgasm is triggered in the body it opens a space beyond the body, linked to the heart and consciousness. The energy of orgasm first rushes in the body, flooding our senses with pleasure. Then it opens a door to the beyond. This happens in a split second, a small moment that we miss most of the time, because of a lack of awareness. This moment is very precious. It shows us where we come from. It is a moment ‘back home’ in which everything is aligned within us: sex, heart and consciousness. If we catch hold of it, it is the greatest orgasm existence can offer us…”

Upcoming retreats

Retreat 2 - Female/Male Orgasm 5-day
05 June 2019 - 09 June 2019, Venwoude Centrum, Lage Vuursche

Registration & Information: info@wildtantra.com